As a guy, my belt looked like a Batman utility belt:
(to the right, from the buckle (which was aligned with the pants zipper)) :
1. Cell phone pouch (yes, I wore a pouch...it's great until you're fixing your car and roll on your side);
2. LED flashlight (I often work at night)
3. Spare magazine pouch (9mm x 2)
(those 3 items were all clustered on the very side)
4. Small "ditty" bag, rt side kidney area (for wallet, keys, etc; about 3" x 4")
5. "Leatherman" knife in pouch (Lt side kidney area)
6. 9mm compact pistol, double-retention holster
I would wear a lightweight "BDU" style jacket over everything.
No purse for me...just a mini-cassette player with two songs: "Batman" and "Ride of the Valkeries"
(ok, I'm kidding about the tape player....

)