Hey guys,

Just wanted to know what you think. I'm nervous about using the men's room, but am at the point where I can't keep avoiding it. Not on T, but have had top surgery. Do you think I'd get looks or just pass as another guy?

http://smg.beta.photobucket.com/user/musicspaz/media/2013-01-18-18-01-59_photo1_zps0e78e8ec.jpg.html

You look like a 17-year-old guy. I'd be more worried about purchasing alcohol than anything else! 

coming from a passable MTF if i saw you in person i would probably look at you but would be too scared to do anything else because that's just how i am with cute cis guys xD

in other words, i would have no idea
unless you have a soft voice, but still i don't think it'd make me suspicious.

Haha..okay I can handle that. I'm 25 but I'd rather be seen as a 17 year old than anything else.

Definitely passable. I wouldn't have a clue.

Thanks guys.. definitely a confidence booster.

I have to agree with what the others have said.  Most definitely passable.

I wouldn't have a clue, either.  Enjoy it!

You pass, but if you like cats, we should also be friends, bro.

While I'll never understand why someone would voluntarily WANT to use a men's room  ,  I wouldn't think twice about seeing you in there.

Unquestionably male to me.

Quote from: JasonRX on January 30, 2013, 10:04:05 PM
You pass, but if you like cats, we should also be friends, bro.

Hahaha..I have to admit I'm more of a dog guy, but wouldn't turn down a friend over that.

Quote from: JoanneB on January 30, 2013, 10:17:27 PM
While I'll never understand why someone would voluntarily WANT to use a men's room  ,  I wouldn't think twice about seeing you in there.

Lol.. honestly..I've seen worse in the girls.

Quote from: beefcatkiller on January 30, 2013, 10:40:53 PM
Lol.. honestly..I've seen worse in the girls.

I doubt it you haven't seen what supposedly grown men will do to a gym restroom it's ridiculous! As for the picture you look awesome definitely pass! And don't worry about the men's room nobody would notice even if you didn't pass men don't look at other men in the bathroom their to afraid of looking gay.

Quote from: Heather on January 31, 2013, 12:44:30 AM
As for the picture you look awesome definitely pass! And don't worry about the men's room nobody would notice even if you didn't pass men don't look at other men in the bathroom their to afraid of looking gay.

As far as the your picture go's...........cute!!!!!!!!!!

And Heather is spot on about guys in the bathroom, don't look at them, then you will have no problems at all.

Quote from: Constance on January 30, 2013, 10:21:19 PM
Unquestionably male to me.

This

Definitely male. Only look a little young though.

Hun, you totally pass. The tattoos are really nice too. Both in and of themselves and helping you to come off as more masculine.

Quote from: Heather on January 31, 2013, 12:44:30 AMAnd don't worry about the men's room nobody would notice even if you didn't pass men don't look at other men in the bathroom their to afraid of looking gay.

This so much. If you want to use the men's room, walk in like you own the place, look straight ahead (don't make eye contact), and just do what you need to do. No one will give you a second thought.

You definitely look male.  A cute male, but a male for sure.

I would say yes,  I would eye you with a bit of suspicion, being an former marine. I mean you may start a conversation with some hardass marine combat vet in the john. I know you would get looks. Me(ie.me a former MOS:5811 military police aka military piggie) and my best friend(ie.he's a former MP/ 4th force recon marine team leader/current 0-5 USA Res. Lt Col), who are both gulf war era vets(1990-1991), he is a iraq combat vet(2007), would eye somebody wearing part of a uniform and really look and see what's that all about. Other than that, nope. Just the clothing.

Lucia,
Just saying, since my friend, tells me all sorts of scuttlebutt from the military, and knows I"m trans, and he does not want to accept it(ie.its on him),oh well.