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By Brian Alexander
MSNBC contributor
Updated: 9:36 a.m. ET June 7, 2007

Q. My husband doesn't want sex more than once or twice a week. Recently, I accidentally found some material on his computer that indicates he enjoys homosexual and transsexual/transvestite porn. Is it possible he's gay or is this a normal thing for some men to be into?

A. I could tell you that maybe he is a closeted gay and maybe he is not and that the only way to find out is with professional help and leave it at that.

Why professional help? Can't she speak to him.
What's wrong with communication?
Why does possibly being gay require a teams of expert to ascertain.. and correct?

1-2 times a week is more time than many couples are having sex, so what's the problem?

He could be bisexual, and so what? Again, I'm baffled

Is your man checking out other men?  PROBABLY!!!!
Does it mean that he will follow thru on it? No.
Most people have a blend of same-sex and opposite sex attractions.
But, I do think that as the prohibitions toward those type of feelings come tumbling down this century, that more and more and more men will come out as Bisexual. Why? Because men like a lot of sex, and so two men can have more sex than heterosexual encounters deliver. Simply because they are always in the mood. I know a lot of F2M's that identify with being gay for that reason alone. Lots of sex. More convenience. Less head games.