Quote from: Justin 21 on February 19, 2013, 10:57:43 PM
hi ladies i normally wouldn't ask this kind of thing and if asked i will remove it, but i am generally curious and have been for a few months now.
i have never seen myself as attractive in any way before or since starting transition, but my gf of 4 months insists to me that i am. i think she might be a little bias and exaggerating, its not that i don't believe her i just can't see what she does.
so i figured perhaps you ladies wouldn't mind giving me an honest opinion. thank you
Jesse
Hi Justin, I almost began to tell you about mtf transition when fortunately, I decided I'd better go back to see if you're FTM instead. Unfortunately, the photos are a little too far away for my ancient eyes to see much beyond your physique, but since you asked us to be honest, I'll give you my opinion. First, your girlfriend's right, because from what I can see you are cute, and you've started young, which is a huge plus, and you're probably not injured or have any other insurmountable reason to not lose some weight if you feel you need to. I'm not very knowledgeable about FTM's but it seems like some trans men like a little bulk on them, and you might be motivated in that direction. I don't know if you're comfortable at your weight or not. If you are, that's great, but if you're not, you can't start soon enough on a good, healthy, workable diet. I'm a 58 year old mtf transsexual who's broken her back three times, but I've still lost 64 lbs. in 18 months, all by dieting, and I plan to lose 12 more before Summer starts. If you choose to lose, you can definitely do it if I did. You're probably using testosterone, so it should be easier to lose weight with it in your system. But Justin, no matter what you do you look all male to me, dude! Really! Congratulations, that's really cool.
