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Started by LearnedHand, February 18, 2013, 08:39:07 PM

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Brooke777

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Brooke777

Wow, according to that the last 10+ years of my life have been abusive. My now ex wife used to meet all the criteria except 5 points. Huh, I never knew it was an abusive relationship. I just figured it sucked.
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Nero

Quote from: Brooke777 on February 19, 2013, 02:38:29 PM
Wow, according to that the last 10+ years of my life have been abusive. My now ex wife used to meet all the criteria except 5 points. Huh, I never knew it was an abusive relationship. I just figured it sucked.

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Edge

Oh that's another thing I like about Tangled: Rapunzel and Flynn are more like partners. They are both equally capable, they both have character development not to mention personalities in the first place (sorry, Prince Charming, but you are cardboard), and they work together.
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Brooke777

Quote from: Edge on February 19, 2013, 05:01:26 PM
Oh that's another thing I like about Tangled: Rapunzel and Flynn are more like partners. They are both equally capable, they both have character development not to mention personalities in the first place (sorry, Prince Charming, but you are cardboard), and they work together.

Flynn was a bad influence on my son. He is now aware that he has a "smolder" and he uses it often to get free stuff. That kid is so adorable!  ;D
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Nero

Quote from: Brooke777 on February 19, 2013, 05:03:50 PM
Quote from: Edge on February 19, 2013, 05:01:26 PM
Oh that's another thing I like about Tangled: Rapunzel and Flynn are more like partners. They are both equally capable, they both have character development not to mention personalities in the first place (sorry, Prince Charming, but you are cardboard), and they work together.

Flynn was a bad influence on my son. He is now aware that he has a "smolder" and he uses it often to get free stuff. That kid is so adorable!  ;D

So that's where that came from!
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Brooke777

Quote from: Not-so Fat Admin on February 19, 2013, 06:08:06 PM
Flynn was a bad influence on my son. He is now aware that he has a "smolder" and he uses it often to get free stuff. That kid is so adorable!  ;D


So that's where that came from!

Yeah, and he is still upset that he "broke his smolder". But, he has been trying to work with those silly gaps in his teeth to "fix it". He is going to be so much trouble when he hits puberty.
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Nero

Quote from: Brooke777 on February 19, 2013, 06:10:26 PM
Quote from: Not-so Fat Admin on February 19, 2013, 06:08:06 PM
Flynn was a bad influence on my son. He is now aware that he has a "smolder" and he uses it often to get free stuff. That kid is so adorable!  ;D


So that's where that came from!

Yeah, and he is still upset that he "broke his smolder". But, he has been trying to work with those silly gaps in his teeth to "fix it". He is going to be so much trouble when he hits puberty.

Broke his smolder! That's adorable.  :laugh:
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Amari

I Loved Oliver & company..
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anya921

Quote from: DianaP on February 19, 2013, 01:27:03 PM
On the matter of the feminine dichotomy presented by Disney, I must say that neither side is right.

Someone from the 1930's: "Get a job? Aren't you ashamed of yourself? You should be getting married and taking care of your kids."

Someone from today: "You like being a housewife? You should be doing something more rewarding like getting a job."

No difference^^^^

Both sides do the same thing, deny the reality that people are different and want different things. To some women, getting a job is more rewarding than raising kids. To others, raising children is the most rewarding thing in the world. If you want one or the other, it's okay either way. However, no one should tell you what you can and can't want.

Well said DianaP.  Everyone should have the right to be whoever they want to be.
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Kayla

Quote from: DianaP on February 19, 2013, 02:07:55 PM
I LOVE Snow White's dress.



Fun fact, my earliest memory is from when I was four wanting to be Snow White for Halloween...
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PHXGiRL

My favorite growing up was Cinderella. Just watched it last week too! I plan on being a Disney princess every year for Halloween now for the next five years since I didn't get to when I was a little girl.


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Nero

Quote from: Serena Lynn on February 20, 2013, 01:04:51 PM
My favorite growing up was Cinderella. Just watched it last week too! I plan on being a Disney princess every year for Halloween now for the next five years since I didn't get to when I was a little girl.




aww bet you look awesome as Cinderella! Do we get to see pics?
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DeeW

Quote from: Not-so Fat Admin on February 19, 2013, 11:15:51 AM
Well, probably a princess who's actually not a tomboy engaging in swordplay (or that general theme). Nothing wrong with that kind of thing. It was cool the first few times, but it's really getting old now. AND it perpetuates the 'masculine is cool, feminine is not good enough' thing. When all we have are heroines who basically are men disguised as hot chicks - the message isn't feminism. (And if we must have a heroine like that, how come she can never be like women most likely to be like that - butch. Why does she always have to be 'hot'.)

And this is another reason for trans misogyny. Traditional femininity is perceived as unacceptable, not even good enough for a movie.

The problem is not women doing swordplay. A woman doing something actiony does not make her a' man disguised as a hot chick'. I don't think this is how you meant it, but the implications that she must act a certain way to 'be' a woman are distasteful. This sort of sentiment is common in our culture.
But how she is written might contribute to the negative feeling you and many experience. Female characters more often than not lose the quality of actually being characters and become written as the 'prefect girl' for whatever male protagonist is there, and sometimes the audience.(note: there are different versions of 'perfect girl', but they all share a pandering 'isn't this chick hot? guys want to be with her, girls want to be her' quality that is grating.) They're written more like a prop than a character. So yes, the message isn't feminism by a long shot.
If I see a well written action female I don't have a problem.
If I see a well written 'traditionally feminine' female I don't have a problem
If they aren't well written? Well I ain't going to enjoy that.
A good example of a non pandering action character, from what I can remember, is Liz from the Hellboy movies. She doesn't feel like she was made specifically for the protagonist with a few shallow traits thrown in in a half hearted attempt to make a character. She also gets saved in the end, but not because she's female and she has to be saved.

The problem is never character traits, but why and how writers implement them. Personally I come from the angle that I write characters, not genders.

And here here, let's have some butch girls out there. And effeminate men!

QuoteYou can't watch a movie without all this 'see, she's a woman but see how strong she is! god forbid we actually let the man play the hero'.

Men are almost always the protagonist and in the end 'save the day'. Women are the helpers... and always end up macking him.


I will agree completely that we need male characters that aren't 100% masculine macho macho. Overlap in masculine and feminine qualities make the most believable character traits. Let the guys show emotion and feelings that aren't related to completely devastating events like a parent's death.
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PHXGiRL

Quote from: Not-so Fat Admin on February 20, 2013, 01:11:22 PM
aww bet you look awesome as Cinderella! Do we get to see pics?

Awe! Thank you!! *blushes* and of course you get to see pic!!! I heart Halloween!  :)
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Edge

DeeW, I think FA meant that there's this misogynist perception that a female character has to be "masculine" to be "good enough." You're right. The problem is not women doing swordplay. I am having trouble explaining it. :/
Here's an example: When I younger, a few of the girls I knew sneered at anything they considered "girly" as if it was an insult. (That should not be an insult.) I think those are the kinds of characters FA was talking about.
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DirtyFox

Although growing up with many Disney movies, I have never really liked any of the characters enough. I do relate better with characters of Studio Ghibli, most notably San from Princess Mononoke. I really do love getting lost in a forest.
Watching the birds made me feel like taking a journey. The people, the landscapes, everything was imperfect but beautiful.
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Bastian

I hate disney lol, Studio Ghibli all the way! I like Haku from Spirited Away and Baron from Whispers of the Heart and The Cat Returns.
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Darkflame

I liked Mulan, I related to her for obvious reasons, but it always upset me that she went back to being a girl when she seemed so much more herself as a guy. I liked Pocahantas, I have native in me and was raised with those morals and beliefs, plus she was a strong female character. Little Mermaid too, another strong female character. I didn't like the princess movies really, not because they were too girly, it just felt like most of them were sitting around waiting for some dude to save them and make them happy in life. Beauty and the Beast was the only one I watched more than once. Belle, she was happy just being in a library by herself all day, she wasn't waiting for prince charming.

If were gonna talk Studio Ghibli...  8) Those were the movies I watched over and over as a kid. Spirited Away was my favourite by far. I wanted to be Haku. I watched Kiki's Delivery Service a million times, mostly because of my sister, but I really liked it too, she was doing her own thing and Jiji was awesome (I swear I lost it when I found out Kiki doesn't regain the ability to talk with Jiji in the original. It's supposed to be a metaphor for growing up) I liked Castle in the Sky a lot too. It was mostly the pirates  :P aaaand Porco Rosso  :P I hope Miyazaki does end up making the sequel
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Joanna Dark

I never explicitly liked Disney films and especially  the over-the-top girlishness it pushes. I've always had a lot of female friends growing up and I never really remember them gushing about wanting to be a princess. I watched beauty and the beast with three girls I was friends with at the time and I loved it though. We prob watched five times in a row, for realz. I can't remember if identified with belle or not, as it sounds like something I would want, especially since she loves libraries. I do too. But I wouldn't have ever betrayed that emotion then and I know I used to imagine myself in the female role in a lot of movies. But a lot of the Disney movies it has to do with "getting the guy" and I'm not into guys, so there's that. Actually, I'm kinda worried I will start to like guys once I'm on hormones for a couple months, as others have said that has happened. I don't think it's too far flung, and for whatever reason it scares me. I mean what if I run into a guy I used to be best friends with and now I want him? I don't know. Guess I'll find out!
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