So every time I would bring up me being trans to my mom she would freak out and tell me I didn't know what I was talking about and that the rest of the family would probly disowne me and not to tell them this would happen every time I visted her after a will I stoped bringing it up. Than this weekend I was visting her and she aoproched me and brought it up. She asked me a bunch of questions and was calm about it. It ended up being a good conversation

Step by step.  Day by day.  It does get better.

That sounds completely normal honestly, and it's great that she is coming around. Some people need more time than others, it's exactly the same way with my best friend, slowly he's coming around. I wish you the best!