discussion questions....blah  I hate having to back up my replies

Quote from: Malachite on February 26, 2013, 05:06:05 PM
discussion questions....blah  I hate having to back up my replies

Same, hahaha.

I need to remember to answer the questions asked of me...I just keep forgetting because of stress.

Quote from: Aaron Gabriel on February 26, 2013, 05:30:45 PM
Same, hahaha.

I need to remember to answer the questions asked of me...I just keep forgetting because of stress.

You can have mine as target practice. 

Some lady told me how much I reminded her of when she was in middle school because I was standing by myself, and was saying "I know, you aren't supposed to talk to strangers, but don't worry I'm nice!".

I want T so badly ;-;

Quote from: Liminal Stranger on February 26, 2013, 05:46:39 PM
Some lady told me how much I reminded her of when she was in middle school because I was standing by myself, and was saying "I know, you aren't supposed to talk to strangers, but don't worry I'm nice!".

I want T so badly ;-;

Hey Max, it's going to be fine. Some day you'll look back on all this and think, gee people used to say I looked young and card me and it doesn't happen anymore, now I'm getting wrinkled and old...wtf! Just remember Auntie Shan said I told you so. Meanwhile quit the coffee and cigarettes, you'll stunt your growth kid! 

Quote from: Liminal Stranger on February 26, 2013, 05:46:39 PM
Some lady told me how much I reminded her of when she was in middle school because I was standing by myself, and was saying "I know, you aren't supposed to talk to strangers, but don't worry I'm nice!".

I want T so badly ;-;

She might have just been picking up on personality for the most part.  I've been told similar by guys and girls -- it didn't matter what I looked like and more about what I was doing.

But you'll get there one day. :3
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My thought is that this depression needs to leave.  I haven't been happy in...ever.  I don't remember a time when I was truly happy nd now it's just getting worse.  >.<; This is so frustrating.

I am never having sex. We just got done with HIV/AIDS week at my school. Of course, I didn't actually learn anything since I already studied HIV/AIDS and had to go through several of these special weeks. It did get me thinking though: sex lasts on average 3.5 minutes. Is that really worth the risk of STDs?

Quote from: DianaP on February 26, 2013, 06:22:13 PM
I am never having sex. We just got done with HIV/AIDS week at my school. Of course, I didn't actually learn anything since I already studied HIV/AIDS and had to go through several of these special weeks. It did get me thinking though: sex lasts on average 3.5 minutes. Is that really worth the risk of STDs?

Haha, I have considered that as well. Fortunately, I don't have sex with anyone until I know them well. Though it'd be weird to ask someone to get an STD test when you know them well and trust them...it'd almost be easier to ask a stranger lol.

Quote from: DianaP on February 26, 2013, 06:22:13 PM
I am never having sex.

High five!

Quote from: Malachite on February 26, 2013, 06:25:58 PM
High five!

Quote from: Caleb. on February 26, 2013, 06:24:58 PM
Haha, I have considered that as well. Fortunately, I don't have sex with anyone until I know them well. Though it'd be weird to ask someone to get an STD test when you know them well and trust them...it'd almost be easier to ask a stranger lol.

I would not have sex with ANYONE without a recent negative test result for everything! 

Quote from: DianaP on February 26, 2013, 06:22:13 PM
I am never having sex. We just got done with HIV/AIDS week at my school. Of course, I didn't actually learn anything since I already studied HIV/AIDS and had to go through several of these special weeks. It did get me thinking though: sex lasts on average 3.5 minutes. Is that really worth the risk of STDs?

3.5 minutes?  You're kidding of course?

Quote from: Shantel on February 26, 2013, 06:27:58 PM
3.5 minutes?  You're kidding of course?

Actually, no. Don't worry, though, This being an average means that some guys last longer than 3.5 minutes. It also means that some men last less time.

Way back in my twenties, when I did actually have sex, it usually lasted from 45 minutes to an hour, not counting any foreplay. Of course, I had "issues" with sex and my body and really had no libido, so it wasn't very often that we even had sex.

I think I need physical and romantic love, to be complete. It's very hard for me to get, but I do want that. I won't consider my life anywhere near "full" if I don't have both. Good luck on that though.

Quote from: DianaP on February 26, 2013, 06:33:11 PM
Actually, no. Don't worry, though, This being an average means that some guys last longer than 3.5 minutes. It also means that some men last less time.

I have heard about those jackrabbits, they are always the brunt of jokes among women!
That's why Peggy Lee used to sing "Is that all there is" in such a forlorn voice.

Quote from: Shantel on February 26, 2013, 08:08:50 PM
I have heard about those jackrabbits, they are always the brunt of jokes among women!

Well, I remember reading that fat men last longer in bed since their adipose tissue produces estrogen, which inhibits male orgasm. Men who don't last as long actually have more testosterone running through their systems, which is why, on average, muscular men don't go as long as they do in the movies. Therefore, those jackrabbits are technically more manly.

Besides, you should be grateful. I'm sure men put everything they have into those 2 minutes, which probably explains why they fall asleep so soon afterwards. Badum tsh!

If it only lasts 3.5 minutes, someone is doing it wrong  .

Quote from: DeeperThanSwords on February 26, 2013, 08:21:09 PM
If it only lasts 3.5 minutes, someone is doing it wrong  .

Or the person can be doing it right, depending on how you look at it. From a biological standpoint, faster sex means that people can move on to more partners faster, leading to a greater likelihood of pregnancy, more babies, and a greater continuation of the species. Food for thought. 

Quote from: DianaP on February 26, 2013, 08:13:40 PM
Well, I remember reading that fat men last longer in bed since their adipose tissue produces estrogen, which inhibits male orgasm. Men who don't last as long actually have more testosterone running through their systems, which is why, on average, muscular men don't go as long as they do in the movies. Therefore, those jackrabbits are technically more manly.

Besides, you should be grateful. I'm sure men put everything they have into those 2 minutes, which probably explains why they fall asleep so soon afterwards. Badum tsh!

Oh Please, you have stepped into something that is over your head Diana, don't go on with this, it's just balderdash!

Quote from: DianaP on February 26, 2013, 08:13:40 PM
Well, I remember reading that fat men last longer in bed since their adipose tissue produces estrogen, which inhibits male orgasm. Men who don't last as long actually have more testosterone running through their systems, which is why, on average, muscular men don't go as long as they do in the movies. Therefore, those jackrabbits are technically more manly.

Ugh, my ex lasted a long time.  He was rather heavy set [see: he was at least 75 lbs to 100 lbs overweight] and he would last ->-bleeped-<-ing forever.  I hated it. -.-;  I was like "damn, I just want to get this over with".   It doesn't help that I'm fairly asexual and don't like sex, but being coerced into sex that lasted longer than 10 minutes was hell. 

Granted, once I transition fully and have both surgeries done I might be more willing to engage and sex and some foreplay [though no one will ever get a bj from me ever again]. 

But right now...the thought makes me shudder and I'd be very very happy just in a romantic relationship without the physical intimacy.

And on STDs...I won't sleep with anyone who hasn't had an STD test done and I won't sleep with anyone who has ever had a test that came up positive with something. >.>