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Started by somethinggirly, February 28, 2013, 09:43:59 PM

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somethinggirly

Hi
I would really like some advice from some trans people.  Im 28, as child I like dressing up as a girl. As I hit pubity I stopped, mostly to avoid teasing, but also I a fear of God.  I have not cross dressed since.  I have as far as I'm aware never meet a trans person.  I have always thought I would have like to be been born a girl much more, but never told anyone.  Until I saw some pictures on the internet about 3 weeks ago I thought to be a transsexual was to be in what i now know(or i think ) is the transition stage.  Im not particularly unhappy as a male but my thoughts over the last three weeks seem like a brick wall I have built around myself has crashed down.  To start living as a female would defiantly mean the end of my career, has any reading this or anyone know someone who has been in a similar situation, what they did and what became of it?  I also want to have an idea of how passable a female I could become at my age, I am short but have wide set shoulder for a male. The transitions I have so far found are mostly teenagers and early twenty that seem to transition very well and old women that are not so passable.  But im not sure if what i have found is an accurate depictions.  I would really like some advice,
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Ms. OBrien CVT

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It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender.  It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.~me
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MadelineB

Welcome to Susan's! I didn't begin hormones until age 44 but I pass just fine. 28 is a great age to start transitioning, so don't be afraid. Take your time. And do what is right for you. Employment can be a challenge for many girls, however I know many like myself who have a better career than before. Just learn all you can, and know that you are not alone.
History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again.
~Maya Angelou

Personal Blog: Madeline's B-Hive
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Jamie D

Welcome from southern California, somethinggirly.  The best advice that I can give is that you try to find a therapist knowledgeable with transgender issues.
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