I'm thinking about the whole stealth vs. out thing. Tbh, I'd rather be stealth. I wouldn't be ashamed of being trans, but I'm honestly tired of being a poster boy for trans issues. My story isn't anything special, it's nothing you can't find on the internet, in books, documentaries. It's out there and I don't have much to offer personally.
So it makes me wonder what I would do if someone outed me against my will. Say, I really got to trust a woman and wanted to date her (I am not even remotely into casual sex or even casual dating)...and she decided to out me. I don't know what I'd do.