I never said what I was and have very few pictures of me, so it's not too difficult for me to hide. I've hinted about what I'm doing on there and the friends that know know, the ones who don't are probably confused. As for name, I've always had 2, boy name in normal, and then in the parentheses, my preferred girl name. It's been like that for a few years and I even moved countries and got a job in a not so accepting country.
When I arrived, some coworkers asked me which name I prefer, and wanted to know if I was gay. That was about it. Still haven't told them anything, though. When I text them through an app, my names are both on there as my ID. I'm sure they guess something, but who knows.