I really, really like Whipping Girl by Julia Serano. I dunno if it's what you're looking for, but it's written by a feminist trans woman (who is a biologist). In the book she tackles our society's rampant anti-femininity (not quite the same as misogynistic), including recognizing that some feminists demonize femininity/feminine people and especially trans women (as "brainwashed" or artificial, in contrast to what our society considers "natural" masculinity) in a counterproductive way.
I found it a really accessible read. It personally helped me feel okay with being a feminine guy. I also got to meet Dr. Serano in person and she's really cool.