I may or may not be transgender or bigender allthough I lean towards bigender often more than transgender if Im either. Most people are afraid to speak up about being transgender, bigender or gay if they are think they might for the fear of being bullied by society. Ive never spoken up basically except telling one person and she is the reason I pondered this all. She's not only a friend and someone I had a major love crush on previously but she's also someone who comes off in my head as a 2nd mother kind of and I trust her 100%. It didnt change her view of me what so ever. Her and me left each other for a year not talking and one day I decided to email her this. She doesnt view me differently weather this with me being bigender, transgender or neither and it's a phase, she doesnt view me any differently. I hope others can find that support somewhere.