hahah i totally understand you, actually i have a family bussness and work as girl (well sometimes i had a androginous look..but just because i am a bit flat

) but my voice is a totally disaventage, aniway most of the clients know me from before my transition and i guess they still thinking in me as boy, so i must just hold the breath and try to dont feel bad for be called "dude or boy" or in any other male way (and you know, in spanish the genre have a lot more presence in the talk than in english language).
Example:
"You are tired?" dont have genre in english but in spanish if is male you say "estas cansadO?" and if is female you say "estas cansadA?"

But well, i guess in some way my brain is more "pragmatic" and i have a androginous image from myself that make me keep in balance, so i can go full time whitout so much fear of being cloked...well that and the fact what transgender people where i live..usually are more easily clocked because lack of resources than in USA..and i was in a realtion whit another transgender girl for 2 years