Kia Ora Z,

Just be yourself -that is a "Gentle-man" in every sense of the word...

Once you start the 2 Ts =transitioning & testosterone  you will evolve into who you are meant to be

Metta Zenda

Quote from: Lesley_Roberta on April 05, 2013, 07:45:35 PM
Women can smell confidence a mile away. Those that are FTM better start practicing up on it. Because you better have it down pat.

Men on the other hand are sharks with blood in the water when it comes to fear. If you show fear you're done.

Most male aggression is just pre emptive fear management.

The only real way to be really out of the ordinary, and not need to worry about things like crying and emotional, is to reek of so much confidence that the men will mistake it as you no something they can't see. That will then trigger fear in them.

Sounds idiotic right? Well so much of being male IS kinda idiotic unfortunately.

Not that being female is a picnic. I am learning, that maybe half the friction between my wife and myself, is the cliche 'don't put two women in the same kitchen' phenomenon. We but heads mainly along those lines. Sort of funny when I realize she's just reacting to me being another woman in the home.

This would be totally hilarious if it wasn't so F'n true