Based on my own experience, I would concur with males having a generally higher pain tolerance (at least for hair removal).
Laser first, then electrolysis...although laser takes awhile (they want 6 weeks between sessions), and E about once a week...
Fwiw, I've been on HRT for more than a year, and cannot remember what a male orgasm feels like. Maybe you would want to write a description, for your own curiosity later?