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Cosmo, May Issue, Fearless Female, article about MTF, correcting gender.

Started by FrancisAnn, April 09, 2013, 12:33:19 PM

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Rowan Rue

Thanks for the clarification Carlita, I appreciate that. 
Yes, I'm pretty sure we do agree for the most part.  I'm still not entirely convinced there wasn't a better way to have written the intro but I haven't had my coffee yet so I'm ill equipped to articulate just what that might be.
Maybe I'll take a shot at it later as a topic for a new thread :)





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Joanna Dark

Quote from: Carlita on April 11, 2013, 05:40:08 AM
...it was entirely sympathetic to Laura Grace and that it presented her transition as what it was: an inspirational journey to a better, truer state of being. That the majority of responses from cis-female readers were overwhelmingly supportive is also great to see.

Yeah that it is nice to see a comment section about trans women that it is supportive and decent. If you read any article that is linked to the Drudge site, and Drudge has been going bonkers about trans issues lately. The comments' section of these articles should not be read. The comments are nasty, subhuman, and since most of the hateful comments come from so-called Christians, they are downright Un-Christstian. I get uncomfortable and depressed reading them, so I don't anymore. This same goes for Yahoo! articles. We usually get referred to as IT. On he other hand, if you watch YouTube vlogs about transition most comments are pretty decent. In fact, on one vlog I watched, a Born-again came on talking about us going to hell and everyone attacked her. I think the media is becoming a lot more sensitive to our issues.

There's a transsexual on "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia" and if you are not familiar with the show, it's about a five degenerates (The Gang) who own a bar. The transsexual in two episodes is portrayed as the decent person when dealing with the Gang. She's also quite pretty (in RL she is cis). I used to be a magazine editor for a regional, niche women's magazine (currently a paid blogger) and profiling trans men and women is relatively new. I'm sure once the AP Style Guide catches up the misgendering will stop. All reporters and magazine editors follow the AP Style Guide. Some use Chicago Style (like Vogue).

I just think it's great we are finally being portrayed in a positive light in various mediums. Hopefully, some national women's fashion mags will even want to hire a trans women. It's been my dream for 10 years to work for Vogue or Marie Claire. I did start a beauty section for the one publication I worked for and I used to get all these awesome clothes and purses: YSL, Ver Bradley, all kinds of stuff. Oh how I miss swag.
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Carlita

Quote from: Joanna Dark on April 11, 2013, 01:56:14 PMI used to be a magazine editor for a regional, niche women's magazine (currently a paid blogger) and profiling trans men and women is relatively new. I'm sure once the AP Style Guide catches up the misgendering will stop. All reporters and magazine editors follow the AP Style Guide. Some use Chicago Style (like Vogue).

As a Brit, I'm not familiar with the AP style guide ... but I stand by my sense that it's reasonable, when describing someone as they were when presenting in their birth gender to use the pronoun appropriate to that gender. In this case the writer is very specifically dealing with Laura when she was Tommy/Tom and so the pronoun 'he' is accurate - particularly since Laura had not, at that point, reached the stage of coming out to herself, and so would (however uneasily) have described herself as a boy, or a man and a 'he'. The moment she defines herself as female, so does the article.

Likewise all references to Laura Grace are accompanied by the proper, female pronouns. And so they should be. I absolutely agree that it is deeply offensive and prejudicial when writers describe transitioning/transitioned TSs by their birth gender, since that is a clear and knowing attack on them, their status and their fundamental right to determine their own true identity.

For the record, I take the same attitude to my own gendering. Though I have not (yet) transitioned, I define myself as transgender. When talking to other transgenders or presenting in a female role/name I am only to happy to think of myself and be thought of as 'she' or 'her'. But on a day-to-day basis, going about in the world as a man, then I am 'he'/'him' and it seems like a kind of category error or cognitive dissonance to insist (to myself, let alone anyone else) that this 6ft tall person, with a beard, a deep voice and an entirely masculine manner and presentation could possibly be described as female, or given female pronouns. Frankly it seems ridiculous. And I say that not because I am self-hating or ashamed - neither is true - but because I am philosophically unwilling to pretend that things in life are something that they are not. And as a reporter, the same rule surely applies.
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Clarity

I haven't read the may issue of Cosmo yet. I remember reading a fairly transphobic article just 2 months ago. I was disgusted enough with it that I stopped reading the magazine and decided I would not renew my subsciption unless they did a good enough job of making up for it. I wonder if this is their way of apologizing? All I checked of the May issue is the letters to the editor to see if there was some sort of complaint/apology for the transphobic article in March.

Jamie D

Quote from: peky on April 10, 2013, 03:50:00 PM
There we go again with the HYPERSENSITIVITY..we are all adults and can read well..she (Francis Ann) did not mean to deride anybody...

lets give her break..take a chilax pill!

It was not "hypersensitivity."  Francis Ann's statement was somewhat inapt.  We must not marginalize our pre-op and non-op members.  Transsexuality is as much a state of mind, as it is a physical expression.
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Dee

For the record, Laura Jane Grace worked pretty close with the article's editor, and have approval for the use and placements of all pronouns. She made an announcement on Twitter.
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Sabrina

Wow. Its nice to see an update on this. I heard about it from my therapist several months ago. There was an article from May 2012 of Rolling Stone about Tommy Gabel's back story. Here's the link for those who are interested:

http://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/the-secret-life-of-transgender-rocker-tom-gabel-20120531
- Sabrina

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