I'm in the minority, but I was not a fan of it. I had mine for less than two months and just sold it. I had the 5.5" light beige. The coloring and detail were very good IMO, but I couldn't get the hang of STPing with it. The funnel part was entirely too flimsy to pee with for me without leaking. It packed okay, the bulge was actually a lot smaller than I thought it would be because the shaft is hollow. I didn't use it for sex so I can't comment on that. If I were you, I would try to see one in person and see if the design works for you before dropping $200 on it.