Quote from: Joanna Dark on April 21, 2013, 02:48:14 PM
And I highly doubt I will find anyone who wants to have sex with me anytime soon given I'm in some sort of in-between state physically.

I didn't think I'd find anyone who was interested in me while I was pre-op. I was wrong, it can and does happen. I know a couple of other pre-op girls who have partners too.

Thanks Kelly! That gives me some hope! I really don't want to be alone anymore, especially now that I'm at peace with myself. Hopefully, something does happen sometime between someone. I'm Bi and not very picky lol so I'm prob pretty easy. BTW, your hair reminds a little bit of my Ex's hair. Except she had a faux-hawk. I like it! It's an awesome color for hair

I'm not with anyone at the moment.

But I know of transgirls that like other transgirls, as well as some bi cis girls that are into transgirls. and there's also very free spirited lesbians as well. I'm still waiting for a few more months of feminization before I start dating.

There's also guys but you have to be careful there since the fetishy types can be really dangerous.

Quote from: Kelly-087 on April 21, 2013, 05:58:20 PM
I'm not with anyone at the moment.

But I know of transgirls that like other transgirls, as well as some bi cis girls that are into transgirls. and there's also very free spirited lesbians as well. I'm still waiting for a few more months of feminization before I start dating.

There's also guys but you have to be careful there since the fetishy types can be really dangerous.

What is a fetishy type? I don't understans that
Statement.  And why would they be dangerous?

Quote from: Kelly-087 on April 21, 2013, 05:58:20 PM
I'm not with anyone at the moment.

But I know of transgirls that like other transgirls, as well as some bi cis girls that are into transgirls. and there's also very free spirited lesbians as well. I'm still waiting for a few more months of feminization before I start dating.

There's also guys but you have to be careful there since the fetishy types can be really dangerous.

Let's be careful how we characterize people. We're all different, let's respect that. Hugs, Devlyn

Devlyn. I don't find anything wrong with guys simply attracted to trans girls.

But there is a line, and there are a group of guys there absolutely obsessed with pre-op transgirls and to me it's the same kind of thing for guys who chase fourteen year old girls. They can be extremely abusive  and controlling if you get involved with them. That's what I mean by feitshy types.


I'll edit to add one of my many online experiences. I was talking t some guy in a chat room. At first, he believes im a CIS girl. The second I casually mention being trans the conversation shifts from "Oh cool, what are you doing in school" kind of stuff to "Omg really? Thats so hot. Will you show me pics? Will you meet me? Will you meet me and have sex with me?" In the course of about two minutes. He begged me for sex until I finally ignored him.

I'll say they aren't all bad either. I talked to a really nice guy once and he told me he really wanted to date a transgirl because he thought it was cute, and he asked me places and how he could meet one, how to talk to them, ect.. A complete difference from a seemingly disturbed sexual fetish the previous example displayed.

Well, then we agree that predators are predators, and that gender and orientation have little to do with it? Hugs, Devlyn

I was still able to get hard enough for self play time a few weeks before SRS.
It took a bit of getting in the right mood but did work.

As for sex post. Its amazing with the right person, its ok with a hook up and bad with the wrong person.


I also now "cycle" my hormones, 28 days, off for 3, on for 28 days. I didn't do it until a few years after srs and one day just started doing it.

Quote from: Devlyn Marie on April 21, 2013, 07:19:11 PM
Well, then we agree that predators are predators, and that gender and orientation have little to do with it? Hugs, Devlyn

Except these predators target our gender and orientation.

but yes, predators are predators.

Your female cis or trans
There will always be men that are abusive to our gender

And I have a fair amount of dating experience....
The men you speak of that really want a ->-bleeped-<-...
Maybe they do have that drive as a straight man
Is fixated on a straight woman....I. have had men
Like that.
I also had a spouse who used to beat me..
Lesson.  All variations have rhier abusers