I don't consider myself a ->-bleeped-<-, especially considering my situation and my own personal feelings. But I have been looking for a good dating site because I want a M2F for a serious long term and real relationship. Not easy to find here though. Or a good site.

It is not unusual to want to be with someone who understands the you inside.  Many of our members have had bad experience with dating sites.  But you may be an exception.

Honestly... I know I wont die if i don't have a relationship... as many have said We crave that certain someone... I was just curious on What everyone thought and what your experience were. Thank you!

  I just gave up period ! Tried about 15 years ago stayed married 9 years paid off the princess
palace she filled for divorce 6 months later. Found out she was going to leave at 4 years but
was told she would not get anything.By waiting she did extremely well and I got my freedom.
Sad but true .I also live in a very small town and there is  0  chance of meeting someone who understands me .Guess I will just keep busy working and fishing.

Wow. Sorry to hear that one.

For me, I know I'll never be anything but me with a cross dressing habit. I have strong feelings of "should'a been a girl" but I've put so much on my plate an waited so long that I never see me becoming who I feel like I should have been, most of the time. I'd just like to find a M2F that I'm attracted to and is attracted me, make an LTR and be happy the rest of my life.

I think I might could even repress my feelings of myself if I could. Who knows?  The popular dating sites seem to be dead ends in my area though. No such luck so far.

What are your interests, Kathryn?

I have no experience with men, so can't advise... except to say that if you meet somebody that you can talk with about shared interests, you have the best chance of the talk leading to more sharing    

I met some interesting folks through meetup.com; not for romance, but trying to broaden my social life.  Meetup.com groups seem to be everywhere, including rural Vermont where i live.

Quote from: Kathryn on April 16, 2013, 08:38:34 PM
Yeah, But I Don't know where to go or how to approach people. I live in a small town by two smaller towns... Deep in TN

Quote from: karla.allen on April 25, 2013, 06:18:12 AM
What are your interests, Kathryn?

I have no experience with men, so can't advise... except to say that if you meet somebody that you can talk with about shared interests, you have the best chance of the talk leading to more sharing    

I met some interesting folks through meetup.com; not for romance, but trying to broaden my social life.  Meetup.com groups seem to be everywhere, including rural Vermont where i live.

My interests? Good Question. I  am so easy and free spirited. There isnt anything i really don't like to do... I love watching movies, Listening to music, I love Talking to each other. I am a very Understanding Person. Easy to talk to. I like outdoor activities as well. Nature walks, swimming, Frisbee, whatever...

Its just a matter of getting out there and finding the right people, but I dont know where to start and hard to in a small town ... I'm slowly working towards being more self stable but that is all on others peoples time too. such as i cant get a job till my mom starts part time. And she doesn't have time to teach me to drive till then, and if the kids (bro and sis) arn't around...

I just have to be patient with baby steps in my life and all the while I am alone. Some Days are just a stand still. Just Waiting and repeating the weeks nothing progressing. Just ruff to handle alone and it would be nice to have friends. Love to have some Real friends though, ones that I can hug or touch and talk to.. one that I can lean on... I am not one who does stuff alone. It's So Tuff. A Struggle. Blah.


I will Check out MeetUp Thank you. :3