Just to clarify, being with a man isn't what makes me whole or complete. I am a complete and whole person without a boyfriend. I know that the story "Twilight" was mentioned earlier in the thread, and I personally dislike that story because the main character, Bella, is written as a female who is incapable of having an identity unless she is with a man. I don't think that's a healthy message to be sending young women. You don't have to have a man in order to be happy.
I just know that being in love is a wonderful new feeling for me. I wasn't missing any part of myself without love, I just feel happier with my man. I feel so amazing because I have a companion to experience life with. And I know it won't all be perfect and that there will be rough patches, but there is always bad with the good and good with the bad. Nothing is purely black or white.
It's important to remember that what feels good and makes me happy doesn't translate to anyone else. I personally love waking up with his arms around me. I love seeing him smile and holding hands and cuddling. I know that I would be a whole complete person without him, but an emptiness would be in my heart if he wasn't here.
The feelings and emotions he has lit inside of me are worth holding onto.
And even though I don't require sex in a relationship, me and him do have a very strong sexual connection. And it's a very strong way to express our love to one another.
I'm young and I'm in love, I think this is all how it's supposed to feel. And he's a stallion in bed! I won't lie!! I'm new to all of this though! I've read about it in countless romance novels and I've finally got to experience a man! Oh and he's taller and so masculine! I get all weak in the knees when he has his shirt off lol I <3 him!
Anyways, I'm known to ramble on forever. Forgive me! just do what makes you happy!
