so i quit smoking about a month and a half ago and i have started my period for the first time since i began puberty, and i hate it!!
honestly i could have gone through the rest of my life without having one, not only that im also sick, and have really bad allergies, my kitty is wet, all the time and i cant stand it cus im not getting any.....ugh. what can i do to bring my period to a close faster?

also im trying to join the military and i have pcos, so if i look more female when i go to join ill be good and they'll over look the pcos and allow me to go to basic.....dont want no arguments, just some helpful advice


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Periods suck... and not just the pain and mess involved.  The dysphoria is amazingly horrible.  I had to buy a reusable menstrual cup and cloth pads so I don't have to buy tampons at a store... because that makes everything worse for me. 

What country do you live in?  If it's the US, you won't be able to transition at all while in the military, and if you're okay with that, go for it and sign up.  PCOS shouldn't prevent you from getting in if that's the only thing wrong with you.  Since you want to join the military and won't be able to transition while you're there, anyway unless your country allows that, you may look into birth control pills.  Sometimes they can make the side effects of the monthly cycle less awful.  There are also herbs that can kind of help with that.  Evening Primrose, I think?

I called it the Red Death lol. I'm cynical like that I suppose... I was a bit lucky cause the second I introduced T into my system it stopped (Well sort of, I started on T one day before the Red Death so I did have to deal with it once...). Nothing sucks more than having to go buy stuff for your period though... Want my advice? Go super early in the morning, like right after the stores opens, grab the biggest friggin bag you can find and buy that. There are less people shopping at like 8am and there are less people at the cash register, also they are so tired they don't care! This is what I did, now I have a stock of the stuff under my sink 'just in case' but now I never have to do that again and I iz happy.

As for the pain I can offer you no advice because I know for a fact nothing works. I took a really bad kick to the ovary area from my horse about 7 years ago and since then (or up until I start T) the pain was crippling. I would just lay in a ball on the couch and miss school because I couldn't move. So I can't suggest anything for that... Eat a lot lol, that's what I did and drink lots of T. Try not to move.... yeah. Sorry, we all know what your going through but it will pass.

Sorry didn't see the military stuff, I can offer no advice on this though =(