Well I started a new job last week... and I've always worn women's underwear under my regular clothes so people would be used to me looking somewhat busty and think nothing of it.

Well, I'm getting along great with everyone and I'm comfortable enough that I feel I can leave my top unbuttoned, pretty sure this is going to raise eyebrows at the very least, but if they like me it should be ok, right?

Walking the fine line of not wanting to be rejected for who I am and wanting to be accepted for who I am...

So I decided to go out to eat wearing my favorite bra and just a shirt over it... I'm thinking it was noticeable:



But it was cool, I felt feminine, the black bra was clearly visible through the white shirt, right down to the embroidery.  Maybe I'll be a trendsetter and more men will wear bras in public?

Now I guess my only concern is running into someone from work while out and about... but judging by everyone else's reactions, it doesn't seem to make much of a difference...

Black under white?!  No no no.

Needs to be white or nude.