No kinky dreams here but in most of my dreams I am a who I am, a women.

Sometimes I am a cat walking around a pool and a garden in acient Egypt...awsome dream...had it many times


Other times I am a tigress stalking somebody, hunting....pretty intense...


Ah, and sometimes I have this very wird dream that I am a boy...ewwww!...very distrubing indeed...LOL

Yes to the first question, even though I thought it was normal to switch between girl and boy in your dreams, depending on the dream / situation (yes, I was naïve that way...  ).

As for the 2nd part, no; but I have dreamt of being with a girl as a girl quite a few times.

Yes, though all my dreams tend to be exciting or about natural disasters. Zombies, ghosts, Slenderman, other scary stuff .
No, I don't have many fun dreams like that to begin with.

 Typically when I dream, I dream of myself as I currently am. That is, MtF in transition.

Sometimes I dream I'm female. Sometimes I dream I'm male. Sometimes I dream I'm a number of other things - pixies included. I was a frost giant once, too.

I don't know if I've ever made love to a guy in a dream, though... Most of the time, my dreams have some sort of plot - in one dream, I was playing a supporting character to a legendary crossbow-wielding dragon hunter. The majority of the time, my dreams involve magic of some sort, and I often experience gliding. I don't experience flying, though... a shame, but I never seem to be able to get it down.

Yes to both...

My dreams are fairly weird though... I once had a dream that everyone was sponges, and I could see their organs. So I tickled them... If anyone knows what that means please tell me.

1. Probably a good 35% of the dreams I am female in them.  I am usually conscious in someway of how this is different from the normal.  Sometime I am cis, sometime MTF, sometimes I really don't know but I am know I am female.  Often times, they are quite profound, of course in retrospect they are always profound.  I remember one where I looked in the mirror at myself topless.  But more than just visual stimuli, I could feel how delicate, softer, lighter I was.  I had this profound chord wash through me of contentedness.  Gone was that testosterone-driven anxiety; I was whole.

2.  Yes, I have dreams like this, and can leave me very content.  Often times though, I am somehow attempting the act and either find I have something I don't want to be there... Or, I have a female partner and I want it back and can't have it back!! Very confusing.  But yes, dreams of men and women as me as a female are quite common.

Xterra, Thanks for posting this question. I guess I'm lucky. My dreams are always very pleasant, I'm just a normal sexy good looking woman have normal sex with a man on top of me. It all just seems so normal.

I don't always dream... (Really, quite rarely)
But when I do, I'm a girl.
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More seriously, I've had maybe four dreams like this - including my three most recent - out of maybe six I can remember having since puberty started.

Never had a sex dream, though - that I know of. :/

I have had sex dreams being both male and female. The female ones come more often now that I am transitioning and I did have them before transition but not always. Oh and I have sex with both males and females in my dreams.  One time I and dreamed I was a sexy female demon having sex with a male angel, that was intense I can recall it very well even though it was years ago. Strange I know.

Most of the time though I don't actually see myself in dreams so its hard to say in situations other than sex.

My dreams are often very strange too and often don't even involve real life things. Something which my ex wife thought was very strange since she always dreamed about real life events involving real life people, whereas I often have completely fictional people, places and events in my dreams.

One thing that bothers me is that I still am often referred to as my old male name rather than my new one in dreams. I guess that will just take time.

I don't think I've been a full on girl, at least I don't remember. BUT, there were plenty of times I dreamt myself wearing girl clothes, or having boobs, or long, feminine hair. Though, there might have been one dream where I was.

As for the sex dreams, no I don't think so. Now, fantasy-wise, yes, all the time lol

I have had dreams where I was a woman.  One in particular was where I had gotten SRS and was looking at my new self when my wife came in and yelled at me "All you do is look in the mirror and"....then I woke up.

Nope, never with a guy.

Usually my dreams can't be bothered with the mundane details of my gender, of I happen to be a participant of it. They're way too weird for that. Usually when I am a participant, I'm either gender neutral, or fluid, changing from one to the other depending on my mood. It's even rarer for me to have erotic dreams, but when I do I know that I'm usually male. But the best ones and the ones I remember more vividly are the ones that I'm female.

Quote from: Sadie on May 02, 2013, 03:26:35 PM
My dreams are often very strange too and often don't even involve real life things. Something which my ex wife thought was very strange since she always dreamed about real life events involving real life people, whereas I often have completely fictional people, places and events in my dreams.

When I was kid/teen most often my dreams were not related to real life - they mostly took place in some places which seemed to be vaguely familiar, but when I woke up I instantly new that those places do not exist. Sometimes they were pure fantasy. Two repetitive patterns... Shooting orange lightnings out of my palms while being extremely scared was one pattern, another one was falling down from extremely high places and seeing the ground coming closer and closer at You, tummy sinking and the whole body tightening at the imminent impact, and then hitting ground like a rubber ball and bouncing off harmlessly, sending You into another flight and jumping over five storey building... Brain is a strange creation, but I have read about one person, whose parachute failed to open, but who landed harmlessly and did so on the second attempt as well - maybe that was urban legend, but I never had enough courage to see if this would work not only in my dreams but in real life too...

I have a few times to the first, but as to the second those are for my ummm intimate times with myself thank you very much..... never in my dreams, but a few fantasies.

Yes. Though...I have been both a full female and a ->-bleeped-<- in my dreams...Usually I can tell by what's happening also once I had a dream where I saw my male self and he told me to choose then one of my female avatars came over and told me they'd be happy no matter what I picked. Dunno what that meant and it confuses me badly.

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Quote from: xterra on May 02, 2013, 06:22:21 AM
Were you ever a girl in your dreams? Did you make love to a guy as girl in your dreams?

A few times pre transition, I was. I had more coming out as trans dreams though. Now I'm always a girl, even going back to places in my life where I was a boy like old jobs, I'm a girl.

I've never really had sex dreams since taking hormones though. My libido has always been low and HRT kinda killed my drive in that I never really think of sex unless there's an instigator involved.

In the last couple weeks I'm always female in my dreams or at the very least trans which is leagues better then being a guy in my dreams (it's leagues better IRL too not just me dreams lol). I don't have nightmares anymore either! And I used to have them a lot.

I've been a girl in my dreams several times more recently, but usually gender has not been a focus in my dreams.

As to the other question, either someone in my dreams interrupts or I wake up before any fun happens, but it would have been with a guy always.

I have trouble dreaming.  A sleep study I did last year showed that I have almost no Stage 4 (R.E.M.) sleep, which is where most dreaming takes place.

Interestingly, when I am exhausted, I sometimes have "lucid dreams" - aware that I am dreaming.