Update: Some good news

Kade1985 · May 16, 2013, 11:23:41 PM

So I keep spamming you guys and gals with my stuff lol. But I just had something good happen so I felt the need to update everyone cause I wasn't doing so hot earlier.

I just had a good talk with my sister, told her about being trans, and what's happening with our mother and me. My sister basically said it was obvious I was always more boyish and stuff and that she doesn't see the big deal in why our mom is getting so mad. My sister basically said I'm still the same person I've always been and that she will tell mom to leave me alone.

It just made me feel a lot better after a very long and tiring day.

Heather · May 16, 2013, 11:44:20 PM

I'm happy to hear you have someone in your family that supports you. Did your mom ever calm down? Does she still want you to move out?

King Malachite · May 16, 2013, 11:48:14 PM

Quote from: Heather on May 16, 2013, 11:44:20 PM
I'm happy to hear you have someone in your family that supports you. Did your mom ever calm down? Does she still want you to move out?

Agreed- I'm happy to hear about that too. You are very blessed to have at least one family member support you. What is the situation with your mother now?

Bookworm · May 16, 2013, 11:53:30 PM

That is great new to hear

. It is good that you have somebody who is there for you and who understands. I hope everything goes well with your mom though.

Kade1985 · May 16, 2013, 11:56:56 PM

Right now my mother is in bed sleeping. Something I should probably be doing lol.

No my mom pretty much went to bed yelling at me, and left me crying again, something she successfully made me do all day and felt like crap.

But my sister has made me feel better, which is great and I feel I worried a bit too much about telling her. She took it like a pro and basically said I'm still me and all that and our mom is acting stupid. My sister told me she'd tell mom to leave me alone and that I can crash at her place tomorrow if mom doesn't back off.

Ms. OBrien CVT · May 17, 2013, 12:03:40 AM

Quote from: Jerred1985 on May 16, 2013, 11:23:41 PM
So I keep spamming you guys and gals with my stuff lol. But I just had something good happen so I felt the need to update everyone cause I wasn't doing so hot earlier.

I just had a good talk with my sister, told her about being trans, and what's happening with our mother and me. My sister basically said it was obvious I was always more boyish and stuff and that she doesn't see the big deal in why our mom is getting so mad. My sister basically said I'm still the same person I've always been and that she will tell mom to leave me alone.

It just made me feel a lot better after a very long and tiring day.

If so many people would just remember the bold part, there would be no issues with transpeople and their family.

spacial · May 17, 2013, 03:31:39 AM

It's only spam when people don't want it.

I love reading your posts and am positive everyone else does as well.

Cindy · May 17, 2013, 04:25:11 AM

Great news!!!

Ltl89 · May 17, 2013, 10:23:39 AM

Jerred,

I am soooo happy this all worked out. I am glad you told your sister and gained her support.

And this is not spam. I know I was very concerned last night and feel a lot better knowing things improved. I am sure everyone feels the same way.

Kade1985 · May 17, 2013, 10:29:47 AM

Quote from: learningtolive on May 17, 2013, 10:23:39 AM
Jerred,

I am soooo happy this all worked out. I am glad you told your sister and gained her support.

And this is not spam. I know I was very concerned last night and feel a lot better knowing things improved. I am sure everyone feels the same way.

Thanks, I'm feeling a bit tired still but better myself

Rachel · May 18, 2013, 08:01:20 AM

It is not spam. We are concerned and wish you the best.

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Update: Some good news