Quote from: xander on May 24, 2013, 11:29:58 PM
I suppose time will tell. Maybe it's just because I'm so used to being hairless that this is quite a shock. Girls I knew pre-t have been pointing it out lately and I guess it's just making me over think it.
Well, there is nothing wrong with thinking about these things. There was a time that I would wonder how I would deal with certain physical aspects of transition if/when they came. It's easy for those who aren't bothered by certain aspects to almost be dismissive to others (in the past I'm sure I have been short with other guys myself).
I had a time in the not too distant past where I was getting kinda paranoid about losing my hair. I would tell myself "well, it's part of being a man" and relate that to others without really owning up to my own fear of it.
I do understand where you're coming from. Change is hard and physically changing without having much say so in the effects a hormone is or may bring you is sometimes bothersome. Added onto that is relatives and friends who might remark about our second puberty saying, "Omg, you're getting so hairy" or "I think your hair may be thinning". When you're not even comfortable with those changes yet it sucks to have someone else point them out.
All I know to say is it takes time to basically get over certain aspects of transition. As far as my head hair...eh, it's hair. I don't want to lose it but I'm not willing to take a prescription medication that may cause sexual or other side effects the rest of my life to keep it. So far it's still holding strong with just more of a "M" shape to it. If it goes all I can say is it's a good thing I look great in hats, lol.
With your body hair by all means remove it until you're comfortable with it. I guarantee there will come a day that you just say screw it...because it's not worth the hassle of removing it. At that point you'll accept it as a part of you.
Hope that helps. I really wasn't going to go back into this topic but I've been up all night with pain waiting on my pills to kick in. Then while going in the forums I remembered how dismissive some guys were about this and that really wasn't fair.