Even before I found out about the definition of androgyne or started to consider myself as such, the relationship between myself and my male partner has always been the same.
We don't live together yet, though sometimes I stay with him from 1-3 weeks at a time. However, if we did live together, we would share most all the "domestic" tasks. We both love to cook, however sometimes when one of us does'nt feel like it, the other will happily take up the task. As far as cleaning, neither of us like it, so we usually share the tasks to make it go faster.
We would both have jobs and probably share most of the money we make. Keeping money seperate hasn't really been discussed yet as there has been no need.
I absolutely hate the idea of marriage and everything traditional that goes with it and I completely reject the idea of ever getting married in any traditional sense and so does he. I loathe the idea of having to give up my name to merge with his. I don't care if it's easier down the road to "just do it". To me, if I give in to one thing females are "supposed" to do, like be the house-wife, take her husband's name, let him pay the bills, etc; to me that is giving in to everything I am not and never want to be, so all of those are out of the question.
Partnerships are supposed to be people working together, and that's what me and my partner do. We spend a great deal of time together and we share so many of the same interests that our own seperate interests are very few. Even so, we have our own free time, and if not, we ask for it when we need so as not to "smother" one another.
To put it to the point, I don't want my physical sex and it's predetermined roles to govern what I do with MY relationship; and it doesn't.