Hi, I am Tyla, and I am a SO of my wife who is trans.

I am here for her support but I also have questions regarding myself.

I am a girl, I like being a girl, but I hate the clothes. I love dressing as a guy, but I still identify as female. Guy clothes are just so much more awesome.

Does this qualify my as a Crossdresser? Or is there somewhere else where I fit a little more snuggly in the definition?

It's... complicated.

Crossdressing has some facets.

Mostly, it comes down to, do you present as a man, or as a tomboy, or a girl that just wears comfy clothing? Another possible facet is, do you get a sexual thrill or pleasure from crossdressing?

Having known you in real life, I would say that just wearing man pants and my shirts doesn't really count as crossdressing par se. But, that isn't the be all, end all of it. Most likely, no, you aren't a crossdresser. If you were to lower your voice, bind your breasts, and maybe even get a packy, then yes, you'd be a crossdresser. ^_^

  If we had the money to take me clothes shopping I would buy my own man clothes.

But I see your point. I like presenting as a guy when I am out alone, so more people don't bug me. I am paranoid (as you know, Sarra) that someone will kidnap me or something that may not happen if they think I am male.

I guess girl clothes are just too complicated for me to choose and like and and and... Guy clothes are shirts, pants, shoes. I don't want to focus on, shirt, undershirt, jacket, bag, tights, skirt or shorts, shoes or shoes.

Too many options!!

Well... I guess lol

Just be careful about presenting as male. You might still get abducted *coughpriestcough*

Actually, men's formal dresses can be sexy when women wear them. Nowadays, most business-style dresses of women are originally based on men's, aren't they?

barbie~~