So, tomorrow I am driving 4 hours to go have the big talk with my twin sister. I told her when she was here this last weekend that I wanted to go up there and talk to her. But I don't think that she caught the underlying tone of that statement. None the less, it is going to be intersting to see what happens. According to my brother, she is going to be "completly suprised but totally accepting." I tend to think that as well. However, I will be telling my brother in law as well. He is a little more of a wild card.

Apparently the latest rumor about me is that I am probably gay. Because of a facebook post I made defending same sex marrage. Anyway the question was posed to them from a mutual friend if I was in fact gay. My brother in law told my brother that "well if he is gay at least he doesn't act gay." So i guess its ok to be gay as long as no one can tell? I am getting pretty anxious about tomorrow. I am not sure how all this is going to play out. I have some tricky social situations hinging on this going well. At worse they can go crazy and feel obligated to inform everyone before I am ready. Or, and I hope its this one, that they are totally suportive and accepting. I just really don't know.

If you ladies could send  me some good luck vibes tomorrow I sure could use them!   

<3 Liv

Good luck girl. I hope it all goes well. I'm sure it will. Sounds like they are a fun couple

I've been contemplating coming out to my own sister for years. Maybe your post will finally give me the courage/motivation.  Good luck!

You and your fraternal twin sister share a link that goes back to the womb.

Who knows, she may have feminized you before you were born, if you had a little chorion fusing!

Best of luck to you!

Wishing you the very best and hoping that it turns out the way all these situations have for me where the anticipation of what could happen was always many times worse than what actually did happen.

I'm wishing you all the luck in the world!

Don't get too stressed.  If you are close, things will likely be okay.  I told my sister a few days ago, who I'm very close with, and her reaction was surprised (well, initially) but totally supportive.  Just be you and speak from your heart.  I'm sure it will go okay.

Love and best wishes Liv. It sound's like your brother in law suffers from a little ignorance. I'm sure the lady he's about to meet and her sister can enlighten him. x

Good luck!

So, it went better than I had hoped for. Apparently to them they were just waiting for me to say something aboutt it. Right away they just told me they want me to behappy. They could telli was miserable for years. So 2 more for team Liv! Thanks for all your support ladies!

<3 Liv.

yay! girl im so happy for you 

Quote from: Olivia-Anne on June 15, 2013, 06:37:41 PM
So, it went better than I had hoped for. Apparently to them they were just waiting for me to say something aboutt it. Right away they just told me they want me to behappy. They could telli was miserable for years. So 2 more for team Liv! Thanks for all your support ladies!

<3 Liv.

Awesome! 

That's great! I am so happy for you. 

I would encourage everyone to share with there families.
Sneaking around is the worst thing you can do.

For me it was completely the opposite. I share with me sisters almost a year ago.
Neither of them will talked to me now. I still hope that will someday change.
We had been real close most of our lives.

It was not the end of the world and life goes on and I have a few friends who are like sisters now.

Again I am so happy for you.

Hugs

congratulations!