Jackie this is something a lot of us mtf going through HRT fear. its scares us how people will react to are body changes. the problem is this fear cause us to think that people are talking about us even though they are not. every time some laughs we think it is targeted toward us even thought its not.
there is one way to helps lessen this fear
if you think your able to tell people
explain to them what will happen to you so they are prepared for what is to come
you be surprised depending on were you live how accepting people can be
and to answer you question I myself don't have any of these fears since I am out of the closet and live in a very accepting area of the USA so everyone ive told knows what is coming