I'm here for you too Skin. I understand your situation, if nothing else we can always talk. 

Much appreciated Jess and Gene. 

No problem, hon. Not too many people in society look out for us so we really need to stick together and lean on one another. I listen real good, not easily offended ( actually nothing offends me), don't mind cursing and would liek to believe I have pretty good insight to other's situations (unfortunatly not my own thoug). You can always PM me ir you need to.