Hi, I'm Cas, 27 from England, UK.
To get the obvious out of the way first: I'm Genderfluid, FAAB and demi/pansexual.
At the moment I'm leaning towards the male end of the spectrum and I'd prefer male/neutral pronouns (they, them, their - I'm not too familiar with Xe etc yet), but I'm not too bothered if you use female ones. =)
While I've always identified as a tomboy and a general hater of gender stereotypes (well, hate is a pretty strong word, but y'know. Gender tends to make me feel uncomfortable), realising that there's such a thing as genderfluid is recent for me. I had that 'Hallelujah' epiphany moment when I came across it. For the last year or so I'd been considering whether I might be FtM, but was always a bit stuck because at times I feel very female. Realising that I didn't actually need to force myself into one or the other was a bit of an eye opener.
So I've recently been experimenting with things - binders, male hygiene products, clothing and considering doing something more flexible with my hair which is currently long and nearly always just scraped back into a ponytail or messy bun and forgotten about.
It's all been a bit of personal journey so far and I'm not really out to anyone except a couple of internet friends, so I'm looking forward to finding some resources, support and a community to share with! Looking forward to meeting you all.
