So I came out to a friend recently as a transgendered female and gynaphilic (technically lesbian I suppose), which she found highly amusing as she figured it out waaaaaay before I ever did. She is somewhat genderfluid and identifies as queer sexually.
Anyway, I kept stumbling over the LGBTIQ thingie and we both agreed its just getting stoopid. Inclusive, yes, and thats great, but so is the alphabet. As I am up the L and T end, and she is down the Q end, its important to catch us all (like pokemon). Anyway, after a frustrating discussion we came up with nothing... Someone told me they prefer 'gay-blt', like it was a sandwich... and neither of us is comfortable with having a term that implies 'not normal'.
I am sure you are all ahead of the ball here- are there any better terms than spitting out letters?
QiLegBit... hmmm....