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Why does this place feel like a second home to me?

Started by Nero, June 26, 2007, 05:19:09 AM

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Nero

Why does this place feel like a second home to me?
I ask myself, why are you obsessed with this forum? It's just type on a computer screen for crying out loud!
But...there are people behind the type.
I can't help it. I love you all. :'(

Nero
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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cindianna_jones

I feel the same way Nero.  I've become fairly close to a few here.  And my heart goes out to so many others.  I sometimes feel that I spend so much time here to the detriment of my own life.  But I keep on coming back.  And you know what?  It is fulfilling in so manly ways.

Yea... I too love you guys.

Cindi
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Hazumu

It (the internet in general, forums, and this one in particular,) have the same power as radio/TV/telephone -- through all the intervening technology/mechanisms we homosapiens are somehow or other able to connect, to fling our thoughts across the abyss and get back an answer from someone on the other side, much like those Johnny Hart "BC" strips where BC would write something on the tablet, toss it in the water, wait, wait, wait (what a waste of Sunday strip real estate,) and the answer would float back from the unseen correspondent.  And somehow over time and distance, and through a channel, contact was made, and two people touched...

Karen
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RebeccaFog

Quote from: Nero on June 26, 2007, 05:19:09 AM
Why does this place feel like a second home to me?
I ask myself, why are you obsessed with this forum? It's just type on a computer screen for crying out loud!
But...there are people behind the type.
I can't help it. I love you all. :'(

Nero

   There are people behind the type. But they aren't just typing; they are expressing.
   I've noticed how open and filled with wonder that many of us are. The topics range from the most ultra-personal to the most worldly. People here can talk about their physical attributes in a way that would freak out people who don't understand.  It's almost like we're the ultimate children. No topic is off limits. No question is too far out. It's like we have no fear. When was the last time you could interact with people and truly have no fear? For me, it was when I was a child before arbitrary judgments about others came into play.

   I think this site is about safety and support and the most incredible intimacy.

  There was a time when I couldn't have said this, but I love you all right back. Even if I thought you didn't like me, I would still love you.   :'( 
  I've been thinking about that day far in the future when I am probably going to be alone due to my age or situation and I already know that I will be okay because I will have this time that I spend here with me always.

  They were the best of times and they went on forever.


With all of my devotion,

Rebecca
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Jillieann Rose

QuoteI feel the same way Nero.  I've become fairly close to a few here.  And my heart goes out to so many others.
Sorry Cindi I stole your words but that is how I feel too.
Susan's is safe, it's a santiuary from the world out there.
It's a place where I can express my really feelings and not get tromped on.
And I know there are other people here who understand how I feel. And seem to care about what happens to me.
And I have met so many people here who need someone to listen to them and just care.
I have to help them it is how I am and how so many other here at Susan's seem to be too.
If it wasn't for Susan's there's a good chances that I would not be in this world anymore.

:)
Jillieann
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rhonda13000

[thoughtfully, with an admixture of.....I'm not sure]

I....must needs echo your sentiment, my brother.

What an odd feeling that your post initiated.........
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RebeccaFog


   After reading the responses here, Nero, I suggest we all get together and form "The Baby Brigade"!!   :D  ;)

::)

Meant with Love, of course.
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Jay

I feel the same way Nero I get up come on here and Im on here until I fall asleep. Its wonderful reading everyones experiances and finding out new information. I feel as if everyone is your friend and that they know exactly what you are going through aswell which is special!



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rhonda13000

Quote from: RebeccaFog on June 27, 2007, 08:09:10 AM

   After reading the responses here, Nero, I suggest we all get together and form "The Baby Brigade"!!   :D  ;)

::)

Meant with Love, of course.

This is really the only 'family' which I have anymore, Rebecca.

I need to be here.
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RebeccaFog

Quote from: Rhonda on June 27, 2007, 08:49:23 PM
Quote from: RebeccaFog on June 27, 2007, 08:09:10 AM

   After reading the responses here, Nero, I suggest we all get together and form "The Baby Brigade"!!   :D  ;)

::)

Meant with Love, of course.

This is really the only 'family' which I have anymore, Rebecca.

I need to be here.


Hi Rhonda,

   i was poking fun at the old 'machismo' that has ruined most of our lives. I meant even if some people might take us to be softies, there's no shame in that. I would rather be seen in the worst possible light that stereotypical opinions might hold over us than to be apart from all of you.

   I love us all.
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Emily Ivy

I feel like this place is the only where I can feel safe. Safe from world and misunderstanding. I have felt so lonely all my life because there were so many people, but nobody was like me. Now I feel much better as I know that there are people like me. Living without knowing who you are is like living without a name or native country. I visit this site twice a day and there have been nights I have had some members in my dreams too  :D

Thanks to everyone for making this place so special.
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rhonda13000

Quote from: Emily Ivy on July 01, 2007, 08:55:37 AM
I feel like this place is the only where I can feel safe. Safe from world and misunderstanding. I have felt so lonely all my life because there were so many people, but nobody was like me. Now I feel much better as I know that there are people like me. Living without knowing who you are is like living without a name or native country. I visit this site twice a day and there have been nights I have had some members in my dreams too  :D

Thanks to everyone for making this place so special.

And thank you for gracing us with your presence, hon.  :)

This place means alot to me.  :) :'(
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RebeccaFog


   About a hundred and fifty years ago, when I was in my teens, I used to dream of a place that I would go to. It was a place where everybody was nice and there were no issues. The people were very peaceful, and looking back, I can see that if they looked like a man or a woman, they did not behave genderish.  I used to get to this place by walking out into the woods and then climbing down into the ground at the spot where a huge tree had fallen and where it's roots had been, there was an entryway to this place.
   I don't have a lot of specifics, but it was a very nice place and everybody was nice to me. For some reason, people drove horse pulled wagons that had square wheels.
   I went there quite a bit and then less and less. One time I went there and it had been a while, This time I brought my class from school with me because I wanted to share this special place. This will sound trivial, but somehow a light bulb was broken by someone in the class. We had to leave and I was specifically told that I could no longer return to this little world.

   When I am here at this web site, I feel like I am back in my world of odd little people where everybody is fun and good to each other.  The rest of the world doesn't really matter so much while I am here. And, when I am back in the real everyday world, I have this place, the people I've met, our little on-line adventures, and our story's and struggles along with me. It makes me feel special.

   I am a person who gets along with others fairly easily. I have friends and acquaintances in my life, some whom I really love immensely. But, it is here that I feel I really connect with others.

   Thank you all.
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rhonda13000

Quote from: RebeccaFog on July 01, 2007, 10:32:43 PM

   About a hundred and fifty years ago, when I was in my teens, I used to dream of a place that I would go to. It was a place where everybody was nice and there were no issues. The people were very peaceful, and looking back, I can see that if they looked like a man or a woman, they did not behave genderish.  I used to get to this place by walking out into the woods and then climbing down into the ground at the spot where a huge tree had fallen and where it's roots had been, there was an entryway to this place.
   I don't have a lot of specifics, but it was a very nice place and everybody was nice to me. For some reason, people drove horse pulled wagons that had square wheels.
   I went there quite a bit and then less and less. One time I went there and it had been a while, This time I brought my class from school with me because I wanted to share this special place. This will sound trivial, but somehow a light bulb was broken by someone in the class. We had to leave and I was specifically told that I could no longer return to this little world.

   When I am here at this web site, I feel like I am back in my world of odd little people where everybody is fun and good to each other.  The rest of the world doesn't really matter so much while I am here. And, when I am back in the real everyday world, I have this place, the people I've met, our little on-line adventures, and our story's and struggles along with me. It makes me feel special.

   I am a person who gets along with others fairly easily. I have friends and acquaintances in my life, some whom I really love immensely. But, it is here that I feel I really connect with others.

   Thank you all.

you're a nice person, Rebecca.
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Suzy

Why?  Because it is a safe place where we can share what's going on in our lives in a world that generally does not understand and never will.  When I found Susan's I was about to go bonkers, like many here.  The love and care the family has shown here have been life savers to me and others, quite literally.  So, many thanks to Susan and to all of the staff who make it happen.  The world would certainly be a lot more lonely without Susan's.  I have made friends that are so very precious and dear to me.  I just don't know what I would have done otherwise.  We live in a world that does not stop to say thanks very often.  So please do stop and say thanks.

Kristi
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Christo

Everybody's hella cool here. I like 2 come here 'cos we have stuff in common. we play games. we talk.  we mess around :laugh: we get info.  its cool 2 be here. not to many places around like this place.

Posted on: July 02, 2007, 04:21:14 AM
Quote from: RebeccaFog on July 01, 2007, 10:32:43 PM

   About a hundred and fifty years ago, when I was in my teens, I used to dream of a place that I would go to. It was a place where everybody was nice and there were no issues. The people were very peaceful, and looking back, I can see that if they looked like a man or a woman, they did not behave genderish.  I used to get to this place by walking out into the woods and then climbing down into the ground at the spot where a huge tree had fallen and where it's roots had been, there was an entryway to this place.
   I don't have a lot of specifics, but it was a very nice place and everybody was nice to me. For some reason, people drove horse pulled wagons that had square wheels.
   I went there quite a bit and then less and less. One time I went there and it had been a while, This time I brought my class from school with me because I wanted to share this special place. This will sound trivial, but somehow a light bulb was broken by someone in the class. We had to leave and I was specifically told that I could no longer return to this little world.

   When I am here at this web site, I feel like I am back in my world of odd little people where everybody is fun and good to each other.  The rest of the world doesn't really matter so much while I am here. And, when I am back in the real everyday world, I have this place, the people I've met, our little on-line adventures, and our story's and struggles along with me. It makes me feel special.

   I am a person who gets along with others fairly easily. I have friends and acquaintances in my life, some whom I really love immensely. But, it is here that I feel I really connect with others.

   Thank you all.

men dont cry but I gotta cry now :'(
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Jasmine

I have only been at Susan's a short time but since I been here I have learnt so much about my self. For the first time in 50 years I have been able to express my self and communicate with others, which I have always had trouble doing.

Love all
Jasmine
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