The reply depends very much on the sort of face you want to have but based on some "generally accepted" criteria concerning morphological differences between male and female faces, by order of importance I would say:
Forehead & orbital recontouring
Brow lift and scalp advance. (+ maybe some hair implants afterwards)
Chin height reduction (genioplasty) + limited jaw recontouring (adapting to new chin height as the overall shape of your face is pretty neat! )
Upper lift lift.
You have a very good nose BTW and while you might like to have the end turned up a little more, I wouldn't do anything too radical if I was you.
Absolutely no tracheal shave.
Last remark, if you haven't already been on HRT for a good couple of years, I strongly suggest you do that before considering FFS. I can make quite a significant difference to cheeks, lips etc.. ie soft tissues.
Warm regards.
Donna