Hey people, I hope you can help me here. As many of you I was born male but feel female. I started to wear female clothes in private a few months ago, but I'm still searching for a good way to prevent my private parts from beeing clearly visible.

I tried tucking some times, but I didn't really succeed. It's still difficult to put my balls into the cavities; I had some surgery at the age of 7, which interferes with these holes. Sometimes I succeed in tucking away, but I always have to be careful with how I move. Some body moves cause strong pain down there.

That wasn't as bad as it is, if those moves causing pain weren't involved when driving a car. Last night I (literally) stepped out of the door, drove to a shady parking lot and changed. Then I drove around a bit just to feel the tingling sensation of being exposed and also left the car for some walking. I felt oh so happy until I made a certain move and it hurt. I had to stop the car and rearrange.

I felt a little ashamed. Fortunately there wasn't anybody out there, so no bad things happened and the embarassement faded quickly. There still is the question how to prevent that from happening again.

Is there a way to hide those private parts without tucking? I'd be totally happy with any tips you can give.

When giving tips for equipment to buy, please keep in mind that I'm German and not all things will be available here. Also please keep in mind that I'm only a part time worker, so my financial limit is quite low unfortunately.

Although I would have prefered to hear some solution, it's pretty relieving to hear that I'm not all alone with my problems.

I usually wear a pair of American Apparel Baby Rib Briefs and a high-spandex pair of women's underwear over that (Esprit Bodywear Destiny pant works quite well). Just pull everything up, and then fix it in place with those two. Doesn't work with pencil skirts, of course, but even the skinniest of jeans are not an issue.

Pia, I suggest that you review some of the topics on the Crossdresser Talk forum.

There is a lot of information here, sometimes you just need to know where to look.   

Quote from: PiaBianca on July 22, 2013, 06:13:28 AM
Hey people, I hope you can help me here. As many of you I was born male but feel female. I started to wear female clothes in private a few months ago, but I'm still searching for a good way to prevent my private parts from beeing clearly visible.

I tried tucking some times, but I didn't really succeed. It's still difficult to put my balls into the cavities; I had some surgery at the age of 7, which interferes with these holes. Sometimes I succeed in tucking away, but I always have to be careful with how I move. Some body moves cause strong pain down there.

That wasn't as bad as it is, if those moves causing pain weren't involved when driving a car. Last night I (literally) stepped out of the door, drove to a shady parking lot and changed. Then I drove around a bit just to feel the tingling sensation of being exposed and also left the car for some walking. I felt oh so happy until I made a certain move and it hurt. I had to stop the car and rearrange.

I felt a little ashamed. Fortunately there wasn't anybody out there, so no bad things happened and the embarassement faded quickly. There still is the question how to prevent that from happening again.

Is there a way to hide those private parts without tucking? I'd be totally happy with any tips you can give.

When giving tips for equipment to buy, please keep in mind that I'm German and not all things will be available here. Also please keep in mind that I'm only a part time worker, so my financial limit is quite low unfortunately.

do a  internet search  on  "hiding gaff"   where to buy   or  make.

Maybe I'm just lucky, but I bought a standard women's girdle and just wore it a bit lower than intended - so that my bits were resting on the "crotch" part instead of pulling it up tight against them. Because it's made of fairly firm elastic, it substituted its own flat crotch. This only works in skirts/dresses, though; in pants the girdle can't ride lower, so I mostly bought looser pants and wore tight undies and that sufficed.