Welcome Natalie! I think you'll find a nice home and support group at Susan's. One piece of advice from me though, I'd take my time with the 'finding a guy and love' part until you really feel comfortable with yourself and in your own skin. I think sometimes we convince ourselves that love will help us really get through life without really loving ourselves first. I think we need to love ourselves, be comfortable with ourselves, then we have so much to offer someone else. Not that you don't love yourself, understand yourself, etc, I'm just saying to really know who you are and how you feel before you embark on that journey 🙂 Take care, Meghan