Was just gearing up to get over my fear of going in the men's room once and for all, and then I was misgendered twice in the past two days. And I have no idea why. The only bright side to this was that in neither case did the offenders hear me speak, so maybe if they had they wouldn't gave called me 'she' so quickly. I had been feeling really good about how things were going, my look, etc.
Confidence is shot. Back to square one.