I apologize if this is in the wrong area or in any way triggering (feel free to move it) but I don't have any cisguys to ask and it's a little awkward anyway. So, I pack. Normally a pouch in my underwear works fine, but I'm wondering in close quarters like at a concert or snuggling with someone in bed, how much...um. Like, would the other person feel or is it tucked away kinda or what? I'm thinking a harness would work better in close situations, otherwise it's like whoa junk everywhere. Help?

In bed?I think you'd feel it a lot.. but with pants on? Barely at all.

It depends if it is hard or not. I gots a pretty small one (yuck I hate it. Want it?) but when I was trying to be with girls and convince myself that I don't like men (i never did convince myself as I always want to make out with boys) but if I did get hard (always by thinking of men lol) the girl could feel it. It will dig in and kinda bend. Like a smaller banana. can't say much about girth as I have none. I never really virilized. How strange. But that is my experience.

P.S. I love when FTMs ask questions that a bio male trans woman might have some knowledge about. I always feel like FTMs and MTFs could help each other a lil more.

Surprisingly you feel it less than you think with clothes on - I think even if you didn't pack, unless somebody puts their hand down there, they won't notice.

If you want something more secure than a pouch, get a jock strap and dont put in the protective cup if it comes with one. I suggested it to Caleb and he loves it! And its so much cheaper apparently that the pouches.
And yea, with clothing on, it feels there but its like having a small squishy hacky sack up in your groin area. Unless you wear boxers. Then its swinging like a little pouch, sticking to your inner thigh on hot days.... you're welcome to enjoy that feeling all you want.

My limited experience is that with a packer held in place against your body, requires some pressure when you make contact with something or someone to feel it.  I hard packer is a little different depends how it held in place and if it sticks out.  It could come in contact with someone and they would feel it a lot more than you do.

It depends on the size of the guy, whether he has loose or tight pants on, and whether he is hard or not. A well endowed guy with some tight pants on sometimes shows off his stuff.

Quote from: Keaira on August 12, 2013, 05:05:11 PM
If you want something more secure than a pouch, get a jock strap and dont put in the protective cup if it comes with one. I suggested it to Caleb and he loves it! And its so much cheaper apparently that the pouches.
And yea, with clothing on, it feels there but its like having a small squishy hacky sack up in your groin area. Unless you wear boxers. Then its swinging like a little pouch, sticking to your inner thigh on hot days.... you're welcome to enjoy that feeling all you want.

Yeah, as Keaira said she suggested the jock strap to me and it works great. They were cheaper than the harnesses. The only downside is if you can't sew, like me, they don't have a hole in the front so the shaft doesn't hang. If I could sew I'd just put a hole in there and it would be even better.

Also, that description, omfg. That's the best one I have heard. And actually, my packer in the jock strap does feel a lot like that. The only thing I don't get is the swinging/sticking because they're held tight up against me.

Quote from: Keaira on August 12, 2013, 05:05:11 PM
Unless you wear boxers. Then its swinging like a little pouch, sticking to your inner thigh on hot days.... you're welcome to enjoy that feeling all you want.

This description made me laugh harder than it should have, really...I have had that feeling, which is why I switched to the modified underwear. It works for working (especially in summer) and driving (12 hour drive with a harness slowly tangling tightly in pubes...), I'm just trying to calculate how much another person would feel in close situations. Looks like a harness will do fine.

Hey, hey, anyone want to let free and come snuggle with me? 

Depends what your wearing as well. Loose denim jeans/baggy tracksuits will make things a lot less noticeable and unless someone is on top of you will probably not notice if your hard.

Tighter jeans on the other hand:



sorry! He really seems like a lovely guy but it is just a little bit amusing x