This week at work is always marked with really long, really boring, and most of all useless, meetings. Previously in male mode, I've just had to grin and bear it.

But with seven months of HRT and a really good tuck, I've discovered something ... well ... interesting.

If I'm tucked well, and I cross one leg over the other and squeeze my thighs together, I get the most delicious feeling in a certain part of me. I can do it repeatedly and it puts me in a REALLY good mood.

I've tried stuff like that before HRT, but it just felt frustrating and distracting. Something about E and no T changes that into just a gentle buzz. Not so powerful that it has to show on my face, and definitely nothing that will bring me close to an O, so no one has the foggiest idea what I'm doing.

The meetings seem to go a LOT more quickly this year.

How do cis women keep from doing this all the time? Or do they, and it's a secret they've all managed to keep from us?

i've never heard of that? tucking for me feels like a nasty kick to the groin. I dont tuck, I just push it downward and put on some really tight underwear, im far more comfortable that way then with traditional tucking.  But if it works for you and feels good, more power to you. lol

 

Shhh...don't talk about kegels too loudly...the men will know why we women cross our legs all the time...

Quote from: Beth Andrea on August 20, 2013, 07:01:25 PM


Shhh...don't talk about kegels too loudly...the men will know why we women cross our legs all the time...

X_x

Uhm, I think why this feels good is due to the fact you have male genitals.

Quote from: suzifrommd on August 20, 2013, 06:19:49 PM
Or do they, and it's a secret they've all managed to keep from us?

Pretty much.  It can get pretty close to masturbation. I'm surprised you can feel something similar tucked. Sounds pretty close!

Quote from: Fitter Admin on August 20, 2013, 07:16:35 PM
Pretty much.  It can get pretty close to masturbation. I'm surprised you can feel something similar tucked. Sounds pretty close!

Im so lost, what!? >_>   <_<  V_V

When I mentioned something like this to the therapist about eight months ago she said it happens when certain nerves are stimulated, and since E has changed our perception we feel it like a woman does.  She said it's called a Phantom Vagina.  It sounded kind of screwy to me so I looked it up, and I guess it true.  It seems that even before SRS we can feel the same vaginal stimulation a cis woman does when there's rubbing or pressure.  If it's good now, is it better after SRS?   

Quote from: kathyk on August 20, 2013, 07:40:15 PM
When I mentioned something like this to the therapist about eight months ago she said it happens when certain nerves are stimulated, and since E has changed our perception we feel it like a woman does.  She said it's called a Phantom Vagina.  It sounded kind of screwy to me so I looked it up, and I guess it true.  It seems that even before SRS we can feel the same vaginal stimulation a cis woman does when there's rubbing or pressure.  If it's good now, is it better after SRS?   

I've had the feeling of "phantom vagina" before, and this is not it. Phantom labia, maybe...when I get SRS I'll be sure to let ya'all know. 

Quote from: A on August 20, 2013, 07:08:27 PM
Uhm, I think why this feels good is due to the fact you have male genitals.

Male genitals (and the internal stuff that connects them to the body) are essentially identical to female genitals. The "big" difference is size (of the penis -v- clitoris) and direction (scrotum = outie, vagina = innie). The nerves and erogenous areas are identical, though. Yes, while tucked they closely resemble the size and configuration of a woman's genitals...so it's a pretty realistic "phantom vagina (and clit). A eunuch would not experience this feeling.

There was a time when I could rock my hips and get a G-spot orgasm, but apparently my prostate has shrunk somewhat, and it doesn't "O" me like it did...but the surrounding muscles will give me a "mmm-mm yeeeaahh...!" feeling if I contract/release them rhythmically (especially while tucked and cross-legged)

Quote from: Beth Andrea on August 20, 2013, 07:55:57 PM
Phantom labia, maybe...when I get SRS I'll be sure to let ya'all know. 

You gave me a good chuckle Beth.  I suspect you're way ahead of me on the schedule, so if you don't bring it up after your SRS I will. 

Quote from: Beth Andrea on August 20, 2013, 07:55:57 PM
Male genitals (and the internal stuff that connects them to the body) are essentially identical to female genitals. The "big" difference is size (of the penis -v- clitoris) and direction (scrotum = outie, vagina = innie). The nerves and erogenous areas are identical, though. Yes, while tucked they closely resemble the size and configuration of a woman's genitals...so it's a pretty realistic "phantom vagina (and clit). A eunuch would not experience this feeling.

They're not identical at all, but equivalent. Anyhow, I get what you're saying. Regardless, the very fact that your organ, unlike a female one, can be contracted by your legs if tucked, is the very root of it. I cannot imagine what kind of contorsion could cause your legs to touch a clitoris. And even if the penis itself isn't the source of the sexual pleasure, then it comes from there being a mass between your legs that's being pushed against the area between the anus and genitals, which is erogenous. In any case I can think of, the penis is the key.

Ew. Enough "masturbation in public" talk for me. I'm off to bed. ._.

Quote from: A on August 21, 2013, 12:39:26 AM
They're not identical at all, but equivalent. Anyhow, I get what you're saying. Regardless, the very fact that your organ, unlike a female one, can be contracted by your legs if tucked, is the very root of it. I cannot imagine what kind of contorsion could cause your legs to touch a clitoris. And even if the penis itself isn't the source of the sexual pleasure, then it comes from there being a mass between your legs that's being pushed against the area between the anus and genitals, which is erogenous. In any case I can think of, the penis is the key.

Ew. Enough "masturbation in public" talk for me. I'm off to bed. ._.

Well...as I understand it (from *close* examination of a few clitoris' in my time  ), the clit does not extend upward and outward like the flaccid penis; it is about 3-4" from the anus, which means unless the woman in question has legs less than 4" diameter, would place the clit directly in the middle of the thigh/hip joint when seated...thus kegels while seated would stimulate to some degree the clitoris. So yes, the actual sensation is probably from the tucked penis and the pressure of the surrounding areas...just like a woman's seated self-pleasuring would come from her clit and surrounding areas (such as the labia/vaginal opening; or "the scrotum" and other, more internal, sensitive areas in a male-bodied person).

Butt...whatever.  It works, and it feels good when done right. And if it doesn't feel good...then you're not doing it right LOL!

Quote from: Teela Renee on August 20, 2013, 07:20:51 PM

Quote from: Fitter Admin on August 20, 2013, 07:16:35 PM
Pretty much.  It can get pretty close to masturbation. I'm surprised you can feel something similar tucked. Sounds pretty close!

Im so lost, what!? >_>   <_<  V_V

Well, it's sort of the female equivalent to a guy getting an erection in class. A girl can get this feeling from how her legs are sitting, fabric of her clothing, etc.

This sounded fun.  So I tried it last night at home for a while and nothing felt special or happened.  So...I tried it here at work in my ergonomically correct custom fitted chair.  That is really ....WOW!!  Holy ****!!  If alone and if there is time to get the mind involved and things fit just right....I'm still shaking.   

You all are going to get me fired. 

JLT, the trick is to use discretion...

After all, why do you think the Mona Lisa is smiling...?

LOL!

Quote from: Fitter Admin on August 20, 2013, 07:16:35 PM
Pretty much.  It can get pretty close to masturbation. I'm surprised you can feel something similar tucked. Sounds pretty close!

Uh - yes according to my sister-in-law who sits that way and bobs her foot up and down, she claims to get off doing that even with company present and no-one has any idea what's going on. I have taken her lead and tuck at night while sleeping on my side, which is no problem sans testicles. Working the kegel for awhile and OMG! 

I know a lot of cis women who have admitted to doing this too. Lol. I don't know how they manage to be so sneaky about it.

Quote from: caleb. on August 21, 2013, 05:27:14 PM
I know a lot of cis women who have admitted to doing this too. Lol. I don't know how they manage to be so sneaky about it.

Where there's a way, there's a will.

I don't think you have to be on HRT to experience this, but at the same time what I've experienced doesn't seem near as intense as you gals describe it. Maybe I haven't just done it right is all but I've certainly felt something doing it or something similar. Now I'm going to be trying to figure this out when I'm in the truck at work lol.

Quote from: Jasriella on August 21, 2013, 06:06:20 PM
I don't think you have to be on HRT to experience this, but at the same time what I've experienced doesn't seem near as intense as you gals describe it. Maybe I haven't just done it right is all but I've certainly felt something doing it or something similar. Now I'm going to be trying to figure this out when I'm in the truck at work lol.

"different strokes for different folks"...some can do this, some can't...I found it easier in a vehicle, because of the constant rocking motion which has to compensated for with abdominals and hips. ergonomic seats FTW!