Pidgin?
wikiwhatever: A pidgin may be built from words, sounds, or body language from multiple other languages and cultures. Pidgins allow people or a group of people to communicate with each other without having any similarities in language and do not have any rules, as long as both parties are able to understand each other.
We borrow from different genders, depending on the situation?
I can see myself doing just this, from past experiences.
It's like adjusting levels of things, affecting a situation by similarity to another person or group.
Not copying, but assuming a set or sets of speech patterns and movements to accommodate another person or persons.
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