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A soul lifting response from my SO when I told her

Started by warlockmaker, August 27, 2013, 03:28:08 AM

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warlockmaker

I am truly blessed. I recently told my seperated wife whom I have an 11 year old daughter with that I was a Transsexual. I have never told anyone but I needed to tell her as I am now 5 months on HRT and still in stealth mode. I told her by SMS and here is her response:

"I always hoped that one day you'd change and come to some sort of enlightenment about life and be happier it never occurred to me that it would be something like this- a transgender issue. I'm very surprised to say the least but I'm ok with it because ultimately it's about something of much greater importance it's about finding true happiness for yourself before it's too late.

You know, you can love people in different ways I've always loved and respected you and that will never change. Whatever you do don't turn your back on us. We are not part of your "old life" we are part of you life now and here in the present."


I wanted to share this heart lifting response with you and hope that you too can find such support. She truly is special.
When we first start our journey the perception and moral values all dramatically change in wonderment. As we evolve further it all becomes normal again but the journey has changed us forever.

SRS January 21st,  2558 (Buddhist calander), 2015
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Cindy

You are blessed, and so is she and so is your daughter.

Thank you for sharing
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Ltl89

Aww, that was very touching.  I'm glad you got such a good response. :)
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Taka

that's not a human... it's an angel!

addressing some of a person's greatest fears in that manner must require more than just a little insight.
my hope in humanity is restored.

i think i could go on for a long time just knowing people like her exist.
thank you so much for sharing.
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Lesley_Roberta

It's sad you are separated, but it is also none of my business why.

It is very nice though that the reason appears to not have prevented her from being a good person and accepting for you. It sounds like your daughter is likely getting told about you properly and again that is good news.
Well being TG is no treat, but becoming separated has sure caused me more trouble that being TG ever will be. So if I post, consider it me trying to distract myself from being lonely, not my needing to discuss being TG. I don't want to be separated a lot more than not wanting to be male looking.
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Beth Andrea

...I think for most of us it is a futile effort to try and put this genie back in the bottle once she has tasted freedom...

--read in a Tessa James post 1/16/2017
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JLT1

Wow,

I cried, at work, again.  But these are good tears.  This is special.  Thank you.

Jenn
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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