Hi - just found this forum.

I am a 41 YO cross dresser.  Married, but my wife doesn't know - and I know she would not be OK with it

My problem is that I trust literally nobody I know with this secret, so I have no idea how well I am passing.  I have been in a few public places, but still fairly nervous about it.   I am mostly worried about my face (and my voice, but that's another topic since I can usually avoid talking).

Here is the best selfie I have...



Any feedback, and do you think I can do anything different with my makeup to make my face look less masculine ?

-Jen

Thin the eyebrows maybe, but the make up looks pretty good actually.

Welcome to Susan's

Quote from: jenny on September 02, 2013, 12:05:20 AM
Hi - just found this forum.

I am a 41 YO cross dresser.  Married, but my wife doesn't know - and I know she would not be OK with it

My problem is that I trust literally nobody I know with this secret, so I have no idea how well I am passing.  I have been in a few public places, but still fairly nervous about it.   I am mostly worried about my face (and my voice, but that's another topic since I can usually avoid talking).

Here is the best selfie I have...



Any feedback, and do you think I can do anything different with my makeup to make my face look less masculine ?

-Jen

I think you pass very well, and not only as a woman but a much younger woman.  No way that's a 41 year old in that picture.  Only issue I see is the wig.  It doesn't look natural. Not sure if its the color or the cut or the positioning....something's off to me though.

People always think I look younger than 41 even without makeup, but the liq foundation sure helps!

OK, good feedback...  I am going to remove the photo because it terrifies me having it up here, and I can't seem to delete the topic.

Thanks
-Jen

There are areas of the site that are not open to the general public, where you can post images and not worry about them being splashed all over the internet.

They are in the donation/subscription section.