Well yeah, I mean, you start with a woman that has some flab, and she says that was so last year, and now look at me and she shows an image of a to die for figure and it's like how do I get to look like her?
Nothing is more convincing than simply envy

I know it is crazy to beat myself up over idiotic expectations, I mean get real Lesley, you are NOT going to be wearing stick girl no flab 16 year old school short shorts EVER. But I would not mind seeing a woman that is 40 something showing me something at least useful.
There was another day I saw a online browser sort of rpg game that is claimed to be 'for women too' and I looked at the initial page of the game site and it was hmmm looks like it was drawn by a man if you ask me.
Sometimes you have to be part of the audience to actually get any real credibility with the audience.