I'm genderqueer/ genderfluid, leaning female most of the time, but I still identify as both (born male, on hormones to get to androgynous/ female). I started dating someone recently who's 99.9% lesbian basically, she's very queer. Last night she asked if it's considered a lesbian or straight relationship. I told her i'm not worried about labeling it, because I have no idea.
Anyone know the proper word?