Hey, I'm new as well...I was part of the GLBTQ Alliance at college this year as I started realizing that the people I find myself attracted to are nothing like those most of my friends and acquaintances are attracted to. I find myself attracted to both sexes, so gender is not the only factor. When i started college my best friend and i discussed how we both thought we might be bisexual. By the end of the year she beaome a lesbian and i more confused. When she confessed that she liked girls I responded with I think i'm a gay man. How's that for a shocker. When i fell for another lesbian friend of mine I realized that me simply being a gay man was still not tweaked enough. I think the lead singer of Placebo, Brian Molko says it best "I find myself attracted to girls that look like guys and guys that look like girls." So yeah, how's that for an introduction....that's rhetorical of course.