Yes, I figures that probably women reading the post op section may have more knowledge than in the SRS section as the dilator question probably comes up only at the time of SRS itself. I looked at the links - the first has a variety of dilators, even ones that are shaped like the soul source ones, that is non tapered and made out of hard plastic, while most others are soft, which I was told is not a good thing actually as they should be hard to be effective. But the ones that were comparable are - and I found this so true for many things in general - more expensive than importing the soul source ones from the US and pay that expensive shipping. Stuff generally is more expensive in Europe it seems. The second link was cheaper, but they did not look trustworthy to me - they look like they are made of hollow plexi glass and they are tapered, which again I was told is not really a good thing.
So I may look further for a while, but I was hoping for some experiences here as the number of products available is big but I am not sure shich fits best the purpose. But if prices are comparable anyways and I dont get info on a good European product from experience, I think I will just import the ones from soul source - its worth the $50 shipping to get something that people say is good rather than be a guinea pig just to save that money (if at all)