I chose the name Alec Benjamin, but my mom prefers the name Alex because it's neutral and she's still having a hard time accepting me. She still wont use either, she said she would for a while but then I tried to commit suicide again and she stopped using it and only just agreed to stop calling me girl, so I'm to scared to push it. So all in all i don't know which my name is going to be, I want it to be Alec, but if I have to choose between my mom calling me Alex or my birth name i'll got with Alex easily.