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Trying to decide if I should do FFS now and SRS later or vice versa

Started by abbyt89, September 19, 2013, 10:38:08 PM

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Damhnait

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September 22, 2013, 12:34:11 AM
Joanna,

There are understanding men out there. I know. I have one. My bf met me pre op so I was too afeard to go out with him. But he was very persistent. When I finally told him what I was he just didn't believe me. He thought I was trying to be rid of him. So not the case, he was gorgeous and he was so fiercely charming. It took him I while once I convinced him. He was quite stunned but after a month with me devastated but he finally started coming about again. 

Right so I had to be quite creative with him till I got SRS lol. I think he was just if not more exited when I had  SRS.  I know I am fortunate and he has done wonders for my confidence.
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anjaq

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September 22, 2013, 01:45:46 AM
thats awesome, damhnait - to have such a caring bf. He really seems to love you a lot.
During transition I had relationhips with other transpeople - I figured, they would be understanding of course. I was quite inexperienced there and wayyy to shy and scared to hit on a cis guy or girl. But I am not good at this anyways. Anyways it is good to have such great relationships that accept that you really are a woman but also accept that you had or will have to do some things to have the body right as well. :)

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Damhnait

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September 23, 2013, 10:59:45 PM
Quote from: anjaq on September 22, 2013, 01:45:46 AM
thats awesome, damhnait - to have such a caring bf. He really seems to love you a lot.
During transition I had relationhips with other transpeople - I figured, they would be understanding of course. I was quite inexperienced there and wayyy to shy and scared to hit on a cis guy or girl. But I am not good at this anyways. Anyways it is good to have such great relationships that accept that you really are a woman but also accept that you had or will have to do some things to have the body right as well. :)

Thanks loads! Remember the men hit on you not you hit on them. That simplifies it. I am lucky he found me. He's lucky he found me! Lol
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anjaq

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September 24, 2013, 04:08:00 PM
Quote from: Damhnait on September 23, 2013, 10:59:45 PM
Remember the men hit on you not you hit on them. That simplifies it.
Cant say they do. Never tried it with a guy yet and lesbian encounters are different I think. Who hits on who? Or both?

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