Well....one of my fears using public bathrooms was always the crack between the doors. I've seemed to have forgot about this after many times of using the bathroom....the only time I think about it is if its a handicap stall and the cracks seem to be larger.

Well....today as I was finishing up I noticed an eye peeking through the crack....I wasn't too concerned since I realized it was a 3-4 year old boy waiting for his mother....I was concerned though about pulling up my pants. I can do it fairly quickly without much notice of something extra....but I didn't want to take a chance...especially since I was at work!! I was froze their for a second...when the boy then asked what I was doing LOL!! I kindly said I was going pee pee....his mother in the other stall then realized what he was doing and told him to stop. I was then able to pull up my pants in private LOL

I came out and the mother, her daughter and I were just laughing calling him a little pervert.....It ended up being pretty funny but I was stuck and a little worried for a while.

Hey Shelly,

I've had that experience before with a little kid peaking through, and I usually think about the cracks as well since then. Luckily though, it's hard to just casually see through the cracks, and it's super obvious if anyone sticks their head up to peak through. What I hate though, is bathroom that have windows with thin curtains, then i am afraid a neighbor could see.

edit to add: didn't see this was on mtf board, hope you girls don't mind me stopping over

I have a weird phobia with public bathrooms.  Now that I know that there are people that actually peek through the stall, I feel even more freaked out by them. 

In any event, I'm glad it was just a harmless kid.  The title had me worried. 

Just keep your knees together and bend onto them as you pee. Then make sure you look at the crack when you wipe and pull up your pants and there you go. Really, there's little to be afraid of. Anyway, the thinness of the crack doesn't give a very good visibility, so chances are they'll either see nothing or, worst case, think they probably saw it wrong.

I always assume someone is looking at me in a restroom stall. If someone sees something that surprises them, well what are they going to do? Call the police?

"I was peeking into that lady's bathroom stall and she's got a weenie? Arrest her!" More likely to get them them sent to the pokey than me.

Small children like that are just curious and don't have any idea of what they may have seen anyway. This dates me, but I recall as a small child being hauled into the ladies room with my mom and seeing all sorts of gals hiking up their stockings and refastening them in their garters, this was long before panty hose back when women's stockings still had the seam down the back that had to be straightened and fastened up to garter belts. I probably saw more fur pieces then most people do in a lifetime and I had no idea of what it was and wasn't really the least bit concerned anyway.

Quote from: A on September 23, 2013, 12:57:08 AM
Just keep your knees together and bend onto them as you pee. Then make sure you look at the crack when you wipe and pull up your pants and there you go. Really, there's little to be afraid of. Anyway, the thinness of the crack doesn't give a very good visibility, so chances are they'll either see nothing or, worst case, think they probably saw it wrong.

No I'm really not too afraid most times....but when a small child's eyes are looking at you! You want to make sure nothing is seen!! I don't have problem sitting or standing with something a little extra, but I do need to adjust before I pull up my undies.

Quote from: suzifrommd on September 23, 2013, 07:05:23 AM
I always assume someone is looking at me in a restroom stall. If someone sees something that surprises them, well what are they going to do? Call the police?

"I was peeking into that lady's bathroom stall and she's got a weenie? Arrest her!" More likely to get them them sent to the pokey than me.

No I'm sorry but I totally disagree!!! This is one reason I feel if transgender people feel the need to relieve their self the former way then they should use the correct bathroom. Yes its not right to peek into someone's stall....but this was a 3-4 year old, if he would of told his mother he had seen something different or something like his....and I were to come out and say well your son shouldn't of been looking. Who do you think would be accused of being a pervert???

I am trans nothing can change that. I would defend another trans person being treated wrongly if I were to witness it. But if I were to see another trans blatantly relieving their self like a male and others making a fuss, I would not stick up for that person.

My opinion...my belief!

Eh. Am I the only one who thinks that trans or not, gendered washrooms are pointless? In my new school building, there's one two-stall washroom for students, unisex. And it's the first time I've ever used toilets that were almost always in an acceptable state of cleanliness. I love it, save for the lack of space and single sink right next to the opaque, dangerous door.

Guys have just learned to do like at home and pee like human beings (=inside, not on, the toilet) out of respect for the women. And guys who need to poop or sit to pee are probably grateful too.

Quote from: Just Shelly on September 23, 2013, 05:15:04 PM
But if I were to see another trans blatantly relieving their self like a male and others making a fuss, I would not stick up for that person.

Geez, Shelly, I hope you didn't think THAT was what I was talking about. There's about a five second gap during which the tuck occurs before everything is safely within the panties. That's what I was talking about.

lol, yeah, you use the women's room you sit.  That's just common knowledge. 

Personally I've yet to know the fear of using the women's room as I'm no where near being able to get away with it, but I have been wearing underwear I'd rather not reveal to the general work populace in the men's bathroom for a while so I kinda understand in some respect.  In general no one tries to peak through the slit and they would have to be rather close to get a wide enough angle for the brain to make real sense of anything it sees that it doesn't expect to see.  I have though developed the paranoid habit of swinging around butt to door as I pull everything up so that I can adjust what I need to adjust without having anything visible.  I think that will serve nicely when I attempt to start presenting as female.