Quote from: Malachite on September 29, 2013, 03:47:25 AM
I will give you my input as a person who follows Christianity. I mean no offense to you or anyone here and I respect everyone's beliefs, but this is from my perspective according to what I believe in Christianity from a nondenominational and especially a none Catholic point of view.
I do not believe in "mortal" or "venial" sin. Sin is just sin. However, because of sin, men are apponited to die once, and then there's judgement. The Catholic person you talked to is right about that. After judgement, there is only heaven or hell. As much as I would like there to be reincarnation, the scriptures just doesn't teach it (unless we are talking about being raised up on the last day with incorruptable bodies).
Also, I am convinced that scripture you are referring to doesn't mean heaven, but something like a temple perhaps. Jesus has even said it's better to remove your hand or pluck out your eye if it's causing you to sin because it's better to enter heaven without them than to go to hell with those parts intact (Matthew 5 29-30) so just from that, it doesn't seem like removing body parts are an issue...and they aren't. You would not go to hell for having your penis removed (and in the case of SRS, the tissue is reused anyways).
If anything, if you tried to follow that law in order to get to heaven, then you must follow EVERY law in the Bible and Galatians 2:16 basically says by the works of the law no man shall be justified. There's only one thing you need to do to go to heaven and avoid hell is to believe on Jesus Christ and have your faith in Him 100 percent. Being transsexual has nothing to do with salvation.
To everyone else: thank you for your replies because I hate to make it seem like I'm only talking to or listening to Malachite but he's said something in this thread that I'm prone to replying to. Maybe a little later down the road I'll reply to other people's posts and I really do appreciate others' input, it's really comforting to see you guys say these things as I feel a little comfortable going down the SRS highway.
To Malachite:
I have nothing but respect for the Christian community as well as you guys' beliefs but here's where I stand as far as
any religion is concerned: First of all, I agree with you when you say "sin is sin" when it comes to the terms of moral or venial sins, and I too would like to believe in reincarnation and I've came across some speculation that reincarnation is even taught among the Christian community.
It was actually GirlInside123 (I really didn't mean to put his identity out there, but out of respect he
did ask me not to share his name, which I am not going to do) who brought me to Christianity but I eventually left because of some of the things he's been saying to me, and that he and I myself, have been stressing me/myself out with what Heaven would be like and whether or not there is another earth lifetime after this one.
My prime reason for wanting to come back to earth reincarnated is so I can do just that, as a female, and have the childhood and do everything I had to miss out on here and can't do in Heaven in terms of being female. I mean, when I was brought to Christianity, I got excited at the belief that I could be female in Heaven and that I could have in Heaven
anything that I could need to be happy. And then as the months and the years progressed, the persuasion drifted from the "you can have anything you need to be happy in Heaven orbit even if [something that's not believed to be done in heaven inserted here] makes you happy" morphed into the "it doesn't matter what you'll look like or be, have, or do in Heaven because you'll be so happy that you won't even care!" which started to worry me even more be he just didn't get that I don't care about happiness or eternal joy, I want back something that was taken from me at birth, that I probably won't get as a transwoman (God knows I
hate that word) or in Heaven, first and foremost. He's also been trying to tell me that I should probably drop my female persona and not let womanhood be my religion and this and that, which I refused, and then it got into a big blowup to the point where angry e-mails turned into a flame war, and then I gave GirlInside123 the ultimatum that if he were going to keep lecturing me that God did the right thing by making me male, that I'm going to be happy in Heaven no matter whether I'm male, female, or genderless, and keep trying to press on that there is no reincarnation, etc. etc. then it's probably in both our best interests that we stop talking as he's been hurting me more than helping me, which is why I went to his website in the first place! For someone to talk to when everyone else seemed to only make it worse! And he's transgender himself, so I really thought he;d be able to relate but sadly I was wrong.
To elaborate... ... ... *long pause as I collect my thoughts*
Religion A believes in Belief A but not in Belief B or C.
Religion B does not believe in Belief A or Belief C but does in B
Religion C believes in Believes A and C but not in B...
I mean! There is
no religion I can turn to! So this is why I've ultimately decided to leave the Christian faith altogether. I mean, I still believe there is a God, a Jesus, Heaven, Hell, and all that stuff as I've stated in the OP, but I believe in things that are taught/believed beyond the Christian faith and disagree with somethings that
are taught/believed in the Christian faith, whereas I feel to stay somewhere my believes are gonna be constantly shot down because of "Oh, we don't teach that here," or "A true Christian/Muslim/Islamic/Buddhist/etc. would take the teachings to heart," blah-blah-blah then I'd rather stick to having my own mind about things (which my mother has always taught me to do anyway) and think for myself.
I mean, none of that is to urge you to leave the Christian faith or to talk you into doing so but that's just where
I stand, you feel me?
I harbor no resentment to GirlInside123 or to the Christian community whatsoever. But I've left on my own accord because I felt it was for the best and for my own good... so that I wouldn't add to the stress that being transgender brings already. I guess it was just a matter of him understanding that... Christianity may have helped
him personally, but it didn't help
me so much, you feel me?
Moral of the story: What helped Person A may or may not necessarily help Person B in the long run. In the terms of us trans people, I guess we all have to find our way of
dealing with it (for lack of a better term) and stick to that.